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agreed Tim,   The internet is just a bad place to seek counseling, especially an international website that pays extra for maximum internet visibility.  They aren't making progress without therapy, so they MUST get it..and quit coasting... Thing's  like this don't coast upwards, they only coast down.

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Northeast United States runner up for the "Singing Hall of Shame".

I agree with tim and steven...You might want to even consider going back and editing your post so all of this doesn't show up and is held against you at a later date.  If you need to talk I am ussually avail via Yahoo messenger during the day....

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Will sing or fish for food!!I'm not quite right!!

Good idea Sharon, don't leave that content around to haunt you...

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Northeast United States runner up for the "Singing Hall of Shame".

Thanks Tim for the advice, but I'm well aware of the implications by having this stuff posted here. I don't see anything harmful except for the truth.
And the truth is, I'm talking about wanting to have friends outside of marriage, but I should'nt have to hide to do it. That is grounds for divorce right there in my eyes. Everything that has to do with personal freedom isn't a violation of a wedding vow.
And I've stated the absolute truth here about everything, so the only thing I see that could haunt me is the fact that I'm being driven into having deeper feelings for any other woman who doesn't act like my wife.
I'll say no more about it now, but I'm not worried about the consequences. Maybe whoever reads this could benefit from it. I do consider this before I just throw caution to the wind. The way I see it, I'm screwed either way. Divorce will cost ME big time, not HER.
I don't see anything written here that could be grounds for her case, but still, I'll pay. There is no easy out for most men.  :wave:

The easier way sometimes looks the hardest. Use your farsighted gift all Men (should) posess and try to predict what a divorce today will mean 5 years from now.

Don't forget this either:...About 80% of all divorces are initiated by women today...So don't be surprized if she finally decides she has had enuff and files while you are out on the road....Many a man has returned to find the locks changed and a restraining order against him that also mandates he pay all her expenses until he can put together his legal defense and go to court....A move from her like that can really disrupt your day....As if stands right now you feel like you are in control and it's all up to you....But once you convince her you are leaving, all bets are off over how she will react...you could end up broke and sleeping in your truck instantly.

[font=Comic Sans MS]There is no such thing as an easy way out......divorce hurts regardless which side your on.....as I read through this thread (and my reading comprehension sucks) I didn't notice if you had shared your hobby with her.....that is has she in fact went and heard you sing?.......as for internet therapy.....I can only speak for myself, but putting into words how I feel is very therapeutic for me and bouncing these thoughts off of people all over the world gives me points of view I'd otherwise not seen......the truth is though ( and believe me I have experience here) what you write can come back to haunt you.....on the other hand that's a risk I have taken and will continue to take cause I enjoy and need the feedback......my daddy told me long ago, don't write anything down you don't want the world to read.......

as for marriage counseling ...... I've been there and it's been my experience that by the time we got there the relationship was always beyond repair.....if people would get there sooner maybe it would work.....but that  hasn't been how it worked for me, it was always to late......I've also noticed that the issues brought to the table usually aren't the root cause anyway.....most of the time the problems go a lot deeper than most are willing to discuss......

just my two cents......now where did I put my smokes......[/font]

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