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so... because I upset you... you feel the need to ridicule Luly? whether it's true or not is not the point.

Also... my mssg to you.... I LOVE WHAT I WROTE..... thinkin about it longer... I'm THRILLED it's up there... now people KNOW that I'm not the mean person you've made me out to be... I AM, however, INCREDIBLY DISCUSTED that you took it upon yourself to broadcast it. In MY opinion you had no right.

your comment about things I find funny that arent...... That's MY opinion... Nobody's opinions are right... not even yours
if you took things too seriously... that's your problem... I however... had a good laugh at it all.

another opinion of mine: I don't think Matt is a follower AT ALL!!! not in the LEEEAST!!! what.... because he's friends with the token bad guy, Tig... that makes him a follower? Same assumption you made with me.

I acknowledge your apology..... lemme think about whether or not I accept it.... not being mean.... just need to think is all.

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Crystal,
Im sorry that happened to you, the whole having your PM to someone broadcasted like that. I think that is a low blow. Although reading it, it didnt make me think any less of you, thats for sure.

I think this whole numbers thing is getting out of hand. Dont let this site become a battlefield of whos score is better because I can promise you, the site will lose its appeal to a lot of ppl.

An 8 is a great score... sorry but there is no one on this site who deserves a 9 - 10 all the time... actually... there are very few subs that deserve more than an 8.

Its a shame when people try being honest and get ripped a new one for it.
But dont attack someone personally and bring up personal things just because you know something about them that others dont and then when you get mad at them, you use it against them. Ive had that happen to me before, and it is not a classy thing to do.

All that did, was prove that you cant be trusted with any info and so in the future, no one should ever confide in you with anything in fear that if you get mad at them for something, you will spill it to everyone.
I think it just made you lose a lot of credibility on this site actually and maybe you should think of an apology.
You can get mad at me all you want....but thats just my thoughts.

Lets try and act like adults and not let the numbers consume us!
Peace & love!

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Tigger27 was very nice to me one day...I actually have no problem with him except for his signature which I feel is unacceptable considering we should be positive not negative about our site....

Tigger ( the gal) ticks me off cuz I wish she would sing...But she won't, instead she just stirs, when her time would be so much better spent singing to us. I was enjoying her singing...The only reason I didn't tell her hugs is cuz I don't think she meant it....

I am sorry I was ugly to Luly, but she was so double ugly back to me, so we are surely even...But I have been upset with her for a while now...and it's just been brewing and tonight it boiled over...I should have just discussed it with her privatly, but I became angry. Again Luly those things were private and I am sorry...

Now I feel even worse about Cindy's feelings cuz I for the life of me I think she is a sweet lady...and a great country singer as well...not to mention new to us here as well...and deserves kinder treatment..

You are correct on opinions....that's prolly why someone made up that age old addage about what they are like....

Whether or not you forgive me is up to you. My purpose for posting your letter was to show that you really can be sweet....That letter floored me cuz in my mind, for the most part I thought you were a lil stinker. I jokinginly tried to get you to "be good" a couple weeks ago...You played along with me for a couple days. But then went right back to the non sense...I actually like your smilies, when they aren't disrespectful....Maybe I am just to old to appreciate your young humor, and maybe you are too young to appreciate my walk thru life which has made me fight fiercely for what I believe in. I have seen so much pain in my life that it kills me to see others be purposefully mean and here I have joined in it and been bad as well...

I still say we were doing ok here till someone brought the big black cloud in and started leaving uglies on good peoples posts...Now we are all messed up and if you think we aren't then look at that front page...

Who here has the answer...I think of all I have read it is Melly....Bless her joyful cheerful heart and every kind fluffy smile inducing word she types on all our posts....

And Gosh I miss Allstar and Wannabe...You see Crystal, I made peace with him too...

My usual job is asking folks to stay, this week I have been trying to convince myself to...

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

is that so? yet you posted THIS before the letter:



so it's BS.... but you still think I'm a sweet person?? It's BS.... but you agree with me?? that's interesting.

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I called it BS cuz you were needling me by saying the thinkin up big words, and the dictionary stuff...See you were acting all mean and stuff but truth is you can be nice...and had just been so to me while I was out having dinner and you left me that letter...go figure...mean in public, but sweet private letter.....so I posted it....Get it now?

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

but that's just IT
I'm NOT mean in public!! YOU just take me the wrong way... which is what I've been TRYING to say for EVER! I've made plenty of friends on here who don't think I'm mean.... and their only impressions of me were on this site... the same posts u read.
Just cuz I'm sarcastic doesn't mean I'm RUDE or MEAN.... same goes for everyone else in this so-called clique2. We're all very passionate... and very sarcastic... it does NOT make us bad ppl. or "mean"

anyways.... all that aside.... mean or not... rude or not.... You still had NO right to post my PM..... the last line in the fricken letter says:



yet u still felt the need to broadcast it..... and THAT is rude.

and for the record.... i left that mssg WAY before I saw all the stabs you've been handin' out here lately..... just a very select few that I saw... then I read deeper... and MY GAWD!!! you are NOT the kind, nurturing person I thought u were.

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And you still felt the need to needle me...now we gonna fight or we gonna make peace...

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

I only "needled" you because I realized AFTER i wrote that damn letter how dillusional I was for thinkin you a sweet person!!!
I didn't see all the nasty things you were saying untill AFTER I wrote that letter.... which is why I regretted sending it to you.... HENCE The NEXT mssg I sent "disregard my last letter"

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I have no earthly clue what you’re upset at me about. It seems to be something before this whole thread even started.

Also, you’re still giving people the impression that everything you said of me is true. The only TRUTH you spoke was the fact that I had someone take my flirtings too seriously. If you still wanna talk about a “pic” I sent a married man, it would have been of my face and nothing else. That married man as well as several others are my friends and nothing else. Those married men also have pics of my child, my dogs and my husband. There are also some married women I have exchanged pics with. What is the whole point here? I have done nothing wrong morally or otherwise so stop trying to make like you’ve spilled some deep dark secret of mine when you know it’s total bull. If someone has led you to believe that, that’s truly sad.

When I started this thread, I directed it to Cindy. And I directed it to her in a manner where I was trying to comprehend what she was so upset about. I thought I was being civil, but somewhere along the line things got outta control. You wanna say I like 10’s, sure Connie I love them!! But no one’s gonna get 10’s all the time! I tried to explain to you why I deleted my 9’s, but you won’t listen, so why reiterate it.

I had no ill feelings towards Cindy, we visited each other’s subs and I’d always enjoyed hearing her. I felt very slighted when she was so curt to me on a kind comment I left her. That’s what this is all about. And when she came back to backlash, keeping my mouth shut then was not an option.

When I was criticized for my vibrato, I definitely was upset because it was the same person over and over. I did not stop my rankings at that time, Connie. Nor did I delete my 9’s at that time. It was when I was trying to make the Top Users List, whether you believe it or not. You’ve said to me they need to stop criticizing my vibrato, remember? I still joke about it, like two days ago in another thread when you said you loved me after I made the vibrato joke.

You also said I was a peacemaker and I really do hate spats. I’m usually the one to break them up, as you well know. I certainly didn’t want to get this blown way outta proportion like it did. It’s just not that important and like ritisroo said, I will walk away next time. I said earlier I didn’t want to provoke bad feelings but damn if this didn’t start the war of the century.

You jumped way over the line of all that is decent when you made those damaging and inflammatory remarks about me. You’re making it seem like I’m carrying on an affair, and that couldn’t be more untrue. No one should ever make those kind of false accusations and biting remarks because they’re mad. Stay on the same playing field and you’ll earn a lot more credence and respect.

As for me, I honestly am too hurt by what I thought was someone I trusted to say anymore at this time.

I dont intend on fighting.... or making peace..
we can both just let it rest.... but I'm not going to accept your apology... nor am I going to try and be buddy-buddy with you. We can just go on have our fun on this site.... but I'm not going to act like this never happened... things aren't going to go back to you and me jokin together.

let's just ignore eachother... I think that's best for eveyone.

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I agree Crystal. We reached the point of no return.

Valuable and long lasting lessons are all we've gained here.

absolutely...
too much was said..... there's no goin' back.....
let's just move on, shall we?

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LULY SAID:

You’re making it seem like I’m carrying on an affair, and that couldn’t be more untrue.

Hun, I never said you were having an affair...never once...please do not put words in my mouth. And I certainly did not mean to infer that...You have always left me with the impression that you love your husband...that's so not what that was about...

I have apologized...thats all I know to do...

Many ugly things have been said by each one of us...and I am the only one who is sorry...so, so be it...

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

this isn't any of my business, but you could edit your stuff online, so the resto of the singer's forum and lurkers won't read this personal stuff.

just a suggestion

Matt the follower.

Connie, there are two things I'm sorry about:

1) That I was too nice to Cindy and I was slammed by her for it.

2) That I trusted you.


Matt, thank you. But I think the world should see the devasting comments she made to show what kind of backstabber she is.

And yes Connie, you infered and insinuated one hell of a lot. Am I ready to forgive, HELL NO. You couldn't have cut my heart in two any more swiftly with a sharp edged knife. Thank you for enlightening me.

Well I edited mine, but unless they do it won't matter, so I may as well have left it......Seems like nothing matters anymore anyway... Everyone at each others throats and for what?

The ugliness has spread like a cancer here...we've all caught it..

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

Back atcha Luly....!!

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

The pot always loves to call the kettle black, but you have been very ugly yourself...to me and to Cindy...this whole place has gotten ugly...

Those who set out on their mission have accomplished their task...

I would cry over the loss of 2 friends, but I can see you never were...But then I have known that for a while...

Merry Christmas...

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

No, YOU have shown exactly what a low person you are by acting like my friend, then saying crap insinuating that I'm carrying on an affair. You edited that part out, didn't you Connie, but plenty of people have already seen what you wrote. Now you wanna get all sweet and apologetic like it never happened. No, I don't care to partake of your fake apology.

This "known that for a while malarky" is really getting extremely boring. I've done nothing to offend you. I was directing this thread to Cindy and then you pop up and decide to stir up trouble by giving your rendition of what you thought happened on my subs, of which is total hogwash. Why are you watching everyone like a hawk and coming to these brilliant conclusions? Seems like for someone who's always telling people they're stirring up the crap, you reign supreme in that area.

If you were really sorry, you wouldn't keep up with your sarcastic remarks. You are so false. Keep on talking cuz you just keep digging the grave that much deeper.

I dont like this thread