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follow the yellow brick road!    Follow the follow the follow the follow the follow the yellow brick road!  

(Sorry, Morgan was in here and you know that I always look for a bucket of water when she's around         .....sorry!   sorry folks!)

By the way, I represent the lypop guild....

Crystal, your pretty face (and writings) will be missed around here.  Take Care!

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Keith.. no matter what people say sometimes... I think that is the absolutely most beautiful thing I've read in a really long time..  

you've just made me cry.. and I am NOT a girlie girl... grrrrrr


but.. btw.. people talkin about flirting with Crystal.. I want in on the action

right Crystal babyyyyyyyyy <hmm wonder if Milo will see that  :shock:

Crystal.. good for you woman

but.. can I have whatever you've been drinking? I sure could use the confidence..  :hug:  :worship:

awww, Cindy!! Good ta see ya! Mouah!

Dang that Keith.... makin' ya cry! Want me to beat him up fer ya?

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yeah could you please  :D

its ok.. what he said was really nice.. I'm glad you have the support you may need it seems  :hug:

take care girlie..

Im still available

waitaminute... where'd Cindy shoot in from, and why ain't I in on the flirtin'??!!

Hey Crystal, thought I'd already posted on this thread, but guess not. As with the rest, I'm also sorry to hear of your troubles, but keep in mind that every fork in the road brings new possibilities and opportunities. Don't forget about the 'Cabaret Rule' either....don't sit alone in your room. Get out and listen to music and sing with friends and enjoy life!! Also eat some of that Tortilla soup that I sent you the recipe for. That soup is not only just good for the body, I believe it helps the mind and soul as well.

Sounds like you have a computer so far which is cool. Stay in touch and if you need anything let me know. Feel free to PM me anytime Gal. I've driven to the Canadian border just to follow a cloud. You never know when a storm is brewing...

Bill

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update:

well..... all my stuff is moved. I'm officially no longer living with Tyson.

only problem is now.... my parents are being.....frickin...... somethin'

I had to move it all this morning in one trip, cuz I have to work tonight.... so I didn't stick around at my parents for long... just long enough for them to tell me that I have to be out of there by the end of November. Wow... thanks for bein' there for me, mom and dad. A couple weeks ago they couldn't wait for me to live with them. Stupid thing is, I have a cracked-out-meth-addicted-40-something-yr-old brother who lived with them for like 2 yrs.... and another 30 yr old brother living with them too when he was going through a tough time... one's a welder and one's a trucker, but when their baby girl wants to stay with them for a couple months because her marriage went down the toilet, thats outta the question. Go figure.... I don't understand it, but I have no choice but to suck it up and try to get through it...

anyways.... I'm venting..... don't mind me... I'm stressed out and all jittery from the 90 litrs of coffee I drank today

I'll keep in touch with the few that I've been phone-texting to let you know how things are... bear with me if I start to vent a little more.... I'm sure I'll be better by tomorrow. Today is just a rocky day. Love you all! Thanks for being there! You have no idea how much I need a friend on the other end of my messages

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Hi Crystal!  Good to hear from you again.  Sorry you're not getting the kind of extra help you need from the folks.  Seems like they could have kept the welcome mat out for a few more months until you get on your feet financially! Hard to say what they're thinking.  Try and stay cool, calm and collected.  I'm sure it's not easy.
Best wishes!

awwww.... that sucks kiddo!

Try approaching them with a planned timeline, of how much it'll cost to move into a new place. Maybe when they see the cold hard facts, they'll relax a bit!

Call me  Anytime              text also

Sorry to hear it (about the folks) Crystal.  But, having been on their end of it I can empathize with them a bit too ... burned out.  Between one kid or another my wife and I haven't had time in our house by ourselves for more than 2 months in the past 7 years.

Plus, with the job market being what you said it was they may believe that's all the time you need to get on your feet.  By putting on a bit of pressure they may believe that you will concentrate on stabilizing your financial life and keep you from wallowing in regrets and second thoughts.  Plus, once your financial/basic needs are addressed you are less likely to become subject to "rebound" relationships.

well babe.. I'm always around SOMEWHERE ... you just NEVER know when or where I be popping up .. . why.. did ya miss me? .. no one ever misses me ..  :no:

aww Crystal hon.. I'm so sorry to hear that .. my parents would invite my HUBBY to move in with them before me.. (serious eye rolling here -- but its the truth)

maybe they are just having a bad day today too and tomorrow will be better for all of you..

hope so...

and I'm here for ya hon.. hugssssssssss

of COURSE I missed you Cindy! ANYONE that cute and huggable is bound to be missed!

Yep that is rough indeed hon...did they give any reason?
Sounds like you have a lot of strength and are coping ok but vent all ya like hell if ya lived closer there would be a bed with your name on it here. take care hugs

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"Be who you are and say what you feel... Because those that matter... Don't mind...And those that mind... Don't matter."

...stop tryin' to make me jealous!!  besides...i know ya love me the most...  

right?  


god crystal, maybe they're doin' tough love on you....i moved back home but was out of there within a week....my choice though....i couldn't get out fast enough....

hang in there sweetie...how are the job prospects comin' along?

Hi Crystal. I know I don't hang out much, but I couldn't help but to get interested in your thread here. So sorry to hear this for both of you. It sounds like it wasn't a mutual break-up? But things and people change I know. I think getting married young is too risky nowadays....especially if two people haven't known one another for very long. That's exactly why my wife and I lived together for about 7 years before actually marrying...we had plenty of time to go our separate ways, but it didn't happen. Maybe because we had a daughter to raise? Or maybe because we just couldn't imagine being apart from one another? We're still together because we want to be I guess. And over the years I've realized that I love her with all of my heart. Sure, there are times of uncertainty about why our lives stayed the course, but that's just a normal thought of what if I would've moved on, or, could my life be totally complete in another situation.
My wife and I have witnessed many changes in our 24 year old daughter's love life since she was a teenager and couldn't really do or say much to encourage her to think a certain way about life and relationships.....it is what it is I suppose. A constantly revolving cycle of human wants and needs that when they aren't being met, a person will find a way to satisfy them regardless. Someone will always get hurt...it's the nature of the beast....life ain't always beautiful.
Our daughter has seemed to settle down a bit now with one dude, but we're not sure for how long. He seems to really care for her, and she expects alot from him usually. I hope they're both happy enough to make it work. There're also kids in the equation...one is his from another, and my daughter's son from another dude.
I hope things work out for you Crystal. There is plenty of time to settle down later. It's just the initial flings that seem to waste alot of a person's time in the pursuit of happiness I suppose. I wouldn't really know though...I've been grounded from a very young age, but I notice the way things are out there with people...seems like alot of drama usually. I guess drama has it's place in life though, otherwise a person would end up as boring as I am.
I'm not sure what to say about the parent's reaction to your situation except that I might be able to relate a bit. Our daughter was so flighty with her guys, we just kept an empty room at home for her. The problem was, she didn't like our household rules, like......no strange men in our house at night or when we were gone....or....once the door is locked for the night, we expected it to stay that way. That might've been an unreasonable request, but with all the crime nowadays and living in this city, we didn't feel comfortable with our daughter coming and going as she pleased all hours of the day and night. She use to leave and not lock the door sometimes.
I hope your parents understand your situation and support you more though. And I hope your life turns out better than you anticipate. Opportunities are endless for alot of people, and life is so short it seems. Take care now. Hugssss  :hug: .......Perry

I was speed reading cause I gotta get off here...... that SO looked like "prostitutes" not "prospects" as I skimmed over it.  :shock:

Slowed me down a bit, I thought I had been missing some vital info.

*Hope everything works out for ya Crystal*

I recall when my mom first left my dad, I had huge issues with it, and refused to even be around my mom for a while. Even though we've always been very close, and in retrospect I know it's what she needed to do. I also had a hard time when my sis divorced her hubby of 26 years..... I think you just feel like you're losing grip on family a bit when someone close goes through that, and you want them to just "make up" and everything stay the same.

I know it's gotta be rough without their full support... hang in there.  :wave:

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