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Chuck2
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 7:33 am |
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knightshow @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:02 am wrote: I totally disagree. I could point out thread after thread where SOMETIMES You, me and many others have posted entire days worth of crap that didn't accomplish anything, other than to be a bit of fun to read. I can respect that. Quote: The problem isn't the post count, the time spent on the site... it's that there isn't an area other than the "tech" area where such fun can be spent. The general discussion thread was where people "years ago" went to discuss karaoke related functions. But the influx of the newer members turned that discussion bboard into a total area for fun. I mean, having a thread strictly for telling people "goodnight"??!! GIVE ME A BREAK! I can and do respect this too. Quote: When there is THREAD after THREAD of you guys just being silly to each other, and others are coming on here scrolling thru the nonsense, it's just a ridiculous amount of time wasted.
If that's what you guys want, fine. I don't mind an occasional wandering down the unknown, just b.s.in'. There's nothing wrong in that. But Steven, you know as well as I that when you get so many posts up in just a few months... that's rather silly! And you don't do it on just one thread, but MANY threads. I've seen threads hijacked that actually were trying to show people something. I've noticed that too. Quote: The actual truth is, there are some people on here who don't work (retired, on disability, etc), so they have time to play. And more power to them.
I just wish that we had a specific area where yes I could go play, and then YES where I could go and discuss karaoke! Not just KJ stuff... I want to hear input from the SINGERs perspective as well.
I was hoping that a sort of lounge would be possible but it doesn't seem to be a good idea. This is only the second forum I've ever joined. I spent the first two or three months going nuts and many suffered from my posting spree. When it finally dawned on me that the people who had been here longer really didn't like the site going in this direction I was more than embarrassed, at first I really thought they were joking around about all the crap I was psoting.
The senior posters shouldn't have to put up with my ramblings. I respect that. That's when I got in line. Now or soon I will be looking for a forum where I can have my fun. I've learned a lot about karaoke here but I have wasted the time of a lot of people. I regret that.
This is my last apology for my behaviour, no one asked for it, no one encouraged it. This is just an opportunity for me to say it one last time.
I respect this forum and its members. Thanks for putting up with me folks. I had fun but the cost to the integrity of the website was not worth it. I don't plan on leaving this site entirely but I promise my posts will be much less than they were.
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Babs
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 7:33 am |
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knightshow @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:02 am wrote: Steven Kaplan @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:36 am wrote: On a more serious note. Who's business is it to judge the quality/quantity of other individuals posts, assuming such content is amicable and the individuals posts directly relate to the friendships nurtured in here ? What would make my 7K posts less significant than the member here that's posted under 500 posts in three years assuming the person posting lesser content posts a higher percentage of diatribe, condescension, and whining content ?
What makes the talker enjoying himself (or herself) at a party any less of a contributing individual, than the individual standing in a corner with a chip on his shoulder ocassionally opening his mouth merely to spew negative content such as "you folks are boring me" ? Perhaps I'm missing something here, however most that post what many deem to be "superfluous crap" are enjoying themselves at this party ! Remember, there are quite a few that get something out've this site, however if a few enjoy sitting around shooting spitballs at those enjoying themselves sobeit. Plenty can be said regarding the "whiners" with a lower post content too. I totally disagree. I could point out thread after thread where SOMETIMES You, me and many others have posted entire days worth of crap that didn't accomplish anything, other than to be a bit of fun to read. The problem isn't the post count, the time spent on the site... it's that there isn't an area other than the "tech" area where such fun can be spent. The general discussion thread was where people "years ago" went to discuss karaoke related functions. But the influx of the newer members turned that discussion bboard into a total area for fun. I mean, having a thread strictly for telling people "goodnight"??!! GIVE ME A BREAK! When there is THREAD after THREAD of you guys just being silly to each other, and others are coming on here scrolling thru the nonsense, it's just a ridiculous amount of time wasted. If that's what you guys want, fine. I don't mind an occasional wandering down the unknown, just b.s.in'. There's nothing wrong in that. But Steven, you know as well as I that when you get so many posts up in just a few months... that's rather silly! And you don't do it on just one thread, but MANY threads. I've seen threads hijacked that actually were trying to show people something. The actual truth is, there are some people on here who don't work (retired, on disability, etc), so they have time to play. And more power to them. I just wish that we had a specific area where yes I could go play, and then YES where I could go and discuss karaoke! Not just KJ stuff... I want to hear input from the SINGERs perspective as well.
I tried to get the ball rolling with Phil. I explained peoples concern on this topic and asked if it would be possible to add another forum topic for karaoke only talk or a just have fun lounge. It was not in his power to add a room, but he forwarded the message on to the people who could. Phil has been as helpful as he can be with the matter. Maybe if more people PM Phil about it, so he can pass on the messages they will listen. As far as I know they have only heard form me. That was a while ago, so I don't think they are considering it. I think they will listen if more people get involved.
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 7:48 am |
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Ladies and Gentlemen,
Time for another :2cents: from the far north.
A lot of discussion has been had on what is the purpose of this or that. The way I see it is this:
1. Questions/discussion on equipment - Tech Forum
2. Questions/discussion on singing, songs, discs - Singers' Forum
3. Questions/discussion on site management - Administrative Forum
4. General blather on whatever by those whose life contains a significant amount of karaoke - General Discussion Forum
So far what I've seen even seems to follow this general flow and I don't see where Phil needs to establish another room titled "Innuendo and General Fun".
Just a thought from a "wallflower" philosopher (yes, I'm the one at parties that stands on the sidelines observing the behaviour of the 'inmates' ).
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Babs
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:08 am |
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I hated to see everyone fighting and taking sides on the matter
that is why I talked to Phil. If it would make everyone happy to have
a seperate place to talk just karaoke I was all for it. I don't believe the room would be used much. I notice that no one usually uses the Singers forum much or the KJ forum,
but they serve a purpose.
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Shunn
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:11 am |
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Babs @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 9:08 am wrote: I hated to see everyone fighting and taking sides on the matter that is why I talked to Phil. If it would make everyone happy to have a seperate place to talk just karaoke I was all for it. I don't believe the room would be used much. I notice that no one usually uses the Singers forum much or the KJ forum, but they serve a purpose.
Right. That's why we should never have these conversations. This forum is an anything goes forum. If you want technical, go to technical......(and talk to yourself)
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MorganLeFey
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:16 am |
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Jeff where ya been
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Chuck2
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:29 am |
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Joined: Sat Jun 03, 2006 7:35 am Posts: 4179 Location: Grand Prairie, TX Been Liked: 3 times
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Babs @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 11:08 am wrote: I hated to see everyone fighting and taking sides on the matter that is why I talked to Phil. If it would make everyone happy to have a seperate place to talk just karaoke I was all for it. I don't believe the room would be used much. I notice that no one usually uses the Singers forum much or the KJ forum, but they serve a purpose.
My sentiments exactly. Many of those with the seniority don't want this part to be anything goes. This needs to be respected.
In some ways it's like buying a house and starting a family and then a strip club opens less than a block from your house. Should you move? No. You were there first. THe strip club never should have opened there but now they need to move.
I want to take my strip club to where it belongs.
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Charmin_Gibson
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:30 am |
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Joined: Sun May 23, 2004 10:32 am Posts: 7385 Images: 8 Location: Out West Been Liked: 47 times
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People, ya need to quit all this bickering gadam'n it.
The world takes all kinds, and here is no different.
You got your "business only" types (hiya Matt, how YOU doin'?)
Your jabber jaw types (no, I'm not pointing fingers Chuck or Kappy) LMAO
>just kidding, ya know I love ya guys<
Your slutty types (no names mentioned here either... not even YOU Sinnamon)
Your "holier than thou karaoke god" types (again.... no names, I don't need BigDog biting my ankles)
You got your "that's not allowed in here" policeman type (ahem... the name of ShyGuy comes to mind... but he vanished it seems) :whistle:
Anyhow, the list goes on.
How BORING would this place be if we were all the same? Variety is the spice of life, remember that.... IMO, it works here too.
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:43 am |
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Joined: Mon Jan 03, 2005 6:48 pm Posts: 13645 Been Liked: 11 times
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Quote: I totally disagree. I could point out thread after thread where SOMETIMES You, me and many others have posted entire days worth of crap that didn't accomplish anything Room description: Quote: Discussion Forum This is the place to talk about almost anything. BECOME A MEMBER & JOIN THE FUN! Quote: other than to be a bit of fun to read.
By the current definition of this "Discussion room", your own admission of "fun to read", or "having fun", coupled with the rooms description of "just about ALL goes" DESPITE Karaoke being a focal point IS for many an "accomplishment". Those amicably interacting and having fun *IS* an "accomplishment" and quite beneficial for many. I don't understand your "total" disagreement. "Fun" although subjective IS in fact positive and an accomplishment. I don't see pragmatic discourse as the objective of this room, (nowhere within it's definition is that stated either). if for no other reason than this being similar to a bar atmosphere, folks sitting around having a fun time with friends conversing HAVING FUN (although deviating from Karaoke) IS allowed in this general discussion area. Others have the option of remaining negative, or ignoring, sticking to their tech-rooms, club areas, other venues etc. Denigrating those having fun is of greater value here ? That was my point. Who's to measure quality of posts, when such a thing is entirely subjective ? Where in the description of THIS particular forum does it state "straying several generations from Karaoke related chatter isn't desired in the open forum Discussion Forum?", if-so according to whom ? Accomplishment for some might be as simple as conversing and relaxing in an amiable atmosphere. It's up to administration to dictate the boundaries of the "Discussion Forum". Where in the definition do you see "Karaoke" related only ? Obviously many opt to stray from Karaoke in here whether a few deem that as acceptable or not. Some WANT to just "have fun".
Regarding "thread jacking", I do agree that's wrong, and while I agree that MOST have been guilty of doing that at one time or another, I was discussing the judging of other's content based solely on quantity of posts. It's not up to me, or anybody else to pass judgement on an individual based upon "quantity" of posts. Many with a low post count post garbage as well. That was my point.
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Chuck2
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:52 am |
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Simply put, this discussion can never end.
I will be having a moving sale soon. All items must go.
Trying to mix artistic types with Technical types has never worked in my experience. The mixture is insoluble.
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Charmin_Gibson
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:56 am |
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Okay, like my ma always said... "If ya can't beat 'em, join 'em"
Let me go get my shyt kickers on, I'll be back. :D
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 9:00 am |
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Quote: Trying to mix artistic types with Technical types has never worked in my experience. The mixture is insoluble.
Tom Scholz must be quite self-contemptuous LMAO He's both. Brilliant mind, but quite technical as well as artistic ! I wonder how much time he's spent in a shrinks office
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Odie
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 9:00 am |
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BlueStainedShoes @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 8:30 am wrote: People, ya need to quit all this bickering gadam'n it.
The world takes all kinds, and here is no different.
You got your "business only" types (hiya Matt, how YOU doin'?)
Your jabber jaw types (no, I'm not pointing fingers Chuck or Kappy) LMAO
>just kidding, ya know I love ya guys<
Your slutty types (no names mentioned here either... not even YOU Sinnamon)
Your "holier than thou karaoke god" types (again.... no names, I don't need BigDog biting my ankles)
You got your "that's not allowed in here" policeman type (ahem... the name of ShyGuy comes to mind... but he vanished it seems) :whistle:
Anyhow, the list goes on.
How BORING would this place be if we were all the same? Variety is the spice of life, remember that.... IMO, it works here too.
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Good points Charmin. I suppose this forum is a microcosm of society in general (with a heavy emphasis on karaoke)!!! LOL
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Chuck2
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 9:04 am |
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Steven Kaplan @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 12:00 pm wrote: Quote: Trying to mix artistic types with Technical types has never worked in my experience. The mixture is insoluble. Tom Scholz must be quite self-contemptuous LMAO He's both. Brilliant mind, but quite technical as well as artistic ! I wonder how much time he's spent in a shrinks office
So were Jefferson and Einstein. They were also accused of having Asperger's.
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 9:07 am |
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edited out. Account compromised :shock:
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knightshow
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:12 am |
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Steven,
I'm not going to sit here and disect the posts and go point for point with you, or anybody else. In fact, this whole THREAD has gone off topic to discuss such matters.
The reason I DO scan over most of the "nonsense" threads is sometimes people do ask legit questions in there, and are looking for help, advice, or a direction in which to turn to.
I agree that there's room for all types at this site. I never said that ONLY karaoke was to be discussed here. Granted it IS a karaoke forum. I just get tired of the thread hijackers.
NOW, before anybody else goes off on that subject, I don't think anybody's done that RECENTLY!!! (so stop apologizin' Chuck! !). NOR do I think it's necessary to title a thread "KARAOKE DISCUSSION ONLY"... that's even more nauseatin'!
I think we're all adult enough to put our own boundaries up without making them look like twelve year olds or younger SHOULD post here, and they're ONLY allowed to go to specific threads.
My comment on the "goodnight" thread was intended to be lighthearted, but to show a specific example. And I was amused scrolling through it. I mean, there ARE members that come on here JUST to say hi to their friends that they've made here. I see nothing wrong with that.
Oh well, such is life!
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Chuck2
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:18 am |
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It's cool Knightshow. I respect what you were saying. A lot of people feel very strongly about that.
I just wish there was a "Lounge" or something to that affect for drivel. If there were, people who start reading any thread without thinking first can avoid this problem in the future.
It won't happen. Spider-Man is too busy to OK it. My. Parker. You might not actually be Spder-Man so I don't want to offend yet another person.
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Lonman
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:22 am |
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Babs @ Thu Oct 12, 2006 7:33 am wrote: I tried to get the ball rolling with Phil. I explained peoples concern on this topic and asked if it would be possible to add another forum topic for karaoke only talk or a just have fun lounge. It was not in his power to add a room, but he forwarded the message on to the people who could. Phil has been as helpful as he can be with the matter. Maybe if more people PM Phil about it, so he can pass on the messages they will listen. As far as I know they have only heard form me. That was a while ago, so I don't think they are considering it. I think they will listen if more people get involved.
I PM'd him too, all he replied was that he got my PM & would let me know if a karaoke fourm alongside the Discussion forum & Tech forum would be possible in the future.
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knightshow
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:22 am |
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I do agree about the lounge thing. I go to one site in the UK, and hardly post there at all, except in what they call "the community" area...
the others are just a mysitifying area... especially when they start talking about uk shows, things to see, etc.! !
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 10:51 am |
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Chuck,
As I've stated (and I apologised accordingly) my ONLY regret here is inadvertently stepping on toes in the technical forum. My goal was never to achieve "inordinate post count". That's just me being myself, but high post count was never an objective even though it became another source of discussion at times. When I play I play hard, and when I work, I work hard. When I post I have something to say. Despite my high quantity of posts in here, and despite others opinions regarding my "quantity" it doesn't matter to me. Enough like me. *I* realize that my ratio of acceptable content given my high post count is very reasonable, and that's ALL that matters to me. I never wanted or attempted to be "top posting individual in KS". Even I'm not pathetic enough to have such a useless super-objective in life (at least consciously). I just started enjoying myself in here, making new friends, and the rest is history. As my post count became a focal point, I joked about it (just part of my self deprecating humor) but NEVER posted for the sake of posting. There's no need to apologise for enjoying yourself merely because a few judge you as being "quirky". I posted a lot in here because I felt comfortable and in place in here, the rest is history. Why apologise ? Why have regrets ? I focus on those that like me. Not the few that opt to heckle.
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