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Babs
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I have to run too. I do hope you feel better.
By guys :wave: Have a great day!
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:02 am |
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Quote: I hope you aren't insinuating that all online flirting is harmless, or not real. Truth is more and more social relationships (for real) are being started on the internet
Flirting is general "Trifling", it's usually harmless and temporary. People can type what they want to me. How much emphasis *I* put on it involves *ME* as well, NOBODY can start a relationship with me, unless I am receptive to starting a relationship this way. There's alot that goes on in internet settings that can be potentially dangerous. Blame the people, not the internet. Nothing is ALL or none.
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Keith02
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:05 am |
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Gilly @ Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:52 am wrote: Didnt read all of the other comments yet, just was replying before I hit the beach. As a huge perpetrator of this "crime", i have one thing to say....
I can do whatever I want:)
No, seriously... this is online life, and yes, I am an overly friendly girl. That is simply who i am. In real life? Same thing. And my husband is perfectly aware of that.... heck, how does he think we ended up dating in the first place?:) So, he has no problem with my flirting, online or in real life... and everyone who KNOWS us personally, knows this. I have mainly male friends, and most conversations turn to "Sex", etc.... and I am me....Gilly is a huge flirt. (Btw, i don't call it flirting, other people do. I just call it being friendly:)
However, i know of a LOT of people that have had secret online affairs, and has hidden them from their sig. other.... I don't really like that, To be honest. I have some pretty raunchy chats with men (and women) online, and i always share them WITH my husband, so he knows what I do. (I don't share EVERY little thing... but if someone sends me a nude pic? He sees it.. or a REALLY good erotic story... i might read parts to him)... I don't believe in hiding anything from him, and find it sort of sad when other people do.
But, heck, people cheat more in real life than online:) At least online (if y ou never MEET the person), it isn't "REALLY" cheating, in my books.... (lol, depending how good your webcam is, i guess;)
Anyways.. to make a long story short, just read THIS line..... If I flirt with you... i DO NOT WANT YOU (in that way):) THis is just who i am, as a person. I like ennuendos, and twisting things around, to sound dirty... it DOES not mean that I want to get naked for you on webcam, or share nudes with you.... I have to admit... i GET this ALOT, from this site. Not from any of YOU guys.. but... let me tell you, you would be surprised....oh would you ever.
Ok, no one really cared to hear all of that.. and my coffee is getting cold, so this was a waste:)
Buh bye:) Don't appoligize...you are a breath of fresh air.
Thank you!
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Chuck2
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Steven Kaplan @ Thu Aug 17, 2006 12:02 pm wrote: Quote: I hope you aren't insinuating that all online flirting is harmless, or not real. Truth is more and more social relationships (for real) are being started on the internet Flirting is general "Trifling", it's usually harmless and temporary. People can type what they want to me. How much emphasis *I* put on it involves *ME* as well, NOBODY can start a relationship with me, unless I am receptive to starting a relationship this way. There's alot that goes on in internet settings that can be potentially dangerous. Blame the people, not the internet. Nothing is ALL or none. I SO agree.
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:07 am |
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Let me qualify something. I WOULD NOT feel comfortable having a teenage child being subjected to alot of behaviour I'm stating I feel adults SHOULD be capable of handling. There is a difference. As adults we have a responsibility to deal with things children aren't ready to handle IMHO..
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Gilly
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Chuck2
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:13 am |
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Gilly @ Thu Aug 17, 2006 12:10 pm wrote: Thank YOU steven:) Mind you... i have a friend, that left her children, and husband behind, and took off with some guy that she met online.... She took off to the states, was gone for two months... then, one day, out of the blue, she called her husband, and asked him to fly down and get her. The guy abandoned her there. Surprisingly, the husband got her, and they worked things out in the marriage. I also have some friends that "flirt" online, as a way to make up for what they are missing in their real relationships at home.... THey put a lot of effort into maintaining the online fling, that in my opinion, could be better spent working things out with the sig. other. I am very lucky with my husband. He is completely understanding, and COMPLETELY trusts me. And, I agree. Blame the people.... the internet jsut makes it easier for them to MEET the people they WANT to flirt with:) No different than the whole phone dating thing. (I used to work for a company, (not giving details here), but basically, guys called in, and chatted with women, the same way you would do online. Anyways... I hope no one HERE thinks that I go too far, or are afraid that i "want" them, ("in that way"). I am completely harmless.....  I never thought you went too far with me. Actually, the first I ever heard from you was a very nice bunch of PMs. I was impressed by the way you spoke to me.
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:14 am |
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Quote: Mind you... i have a friend, that left her children, and husband behind, and took off with some guy that she met online....
It happens. In apartment complexes, and when I was growing up there was no internet, but so many still played musical beds.. This is life, it often sucks, but I think both you and I share a similar perspective regarding marriage too.... It's a risk ! It's not for everyone.. You can't possess another person. It's MY responsibility to KNOW my spouse, there are risks when people marry before they really know one-another, I suspect few that are young really know one-another. Assuming two know one-another, people often grow apart, and tire of each other too !
JMO
I don't blame the internet, I look at it as a general warning sign that "What might've seemed to work years ago, often doesn't work"
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Steven Kaplan
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:19 am |
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Quote: No different than the whole phone dating thing.
Yep, In the early 80's there was always 1-900-#$*@ING or "those" party-lines. It wasn't only single guys that spent money on phonesex. 
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Gilly
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:22 am |
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Gilly
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:28 am |
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I used to be a telelmarketer when I was about 17. I only did that for a few months but I sold a lot to women in college. I guess they were hoping that I would look as good as I sounded and that I would also deliver. Some of them did tell me this anyway.
I quit working there when they told me that I couldn't deliver the products. Those ladies would have been disappointed anyway, well at least some of them.
I'd better get my shorts on. Gilly will be by here any second, we're going to the beach.
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mroctober
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:12 am |
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Quote: I met men in person, from online, with no supervision who were MUCH older than me.. etc etc. And, i regret it, terribly, nowadays
Im much older ...dont be scared come meet me 
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Charmin_Gibson
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:16 am |
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Problem with flirting online is:
Some people know how to give it, but some do NOT know how to take it.
Flirting is fun, and harmless for the most part. Unless somebody out there starts to take it too seriously, and think, as Gilly said..... that you "really want them".
It's kinda like the critique in SS though, you don't know WHO can really take it all as it's meant to be taken, and who can't.
Maybe I just better shut up, huh?
Oh, and Gilly, I'm one of those bad girls you talked about. If my hubby EVEN read HALF the stuff I've written here, and shared in PM's.... I'd be in trOUble. I love him to death, but this..... is my one and only outlet, where I cut loose, and play in my pretend world for a few hours a day. And it's harmless. It's not like I'd ever really MEET anyone from online, have no intention of getting a "real" relationship going from online, hell- I AM married.... but, my hubby is a jealous man, and he would NOT understand my concept of "it's all in fun". Though, I think he would be tempted by YOU to do the same thing, if he saw your avatar. :D Cause after all (to quote Tammy Wynette) ...... he's just a man.
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Gilly
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Charmin_Gibson
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Quote: Don't answer if you think i am just plain toooo nosy:) ....... Dam.n nosy lil' bytch. Quote: charmin... but, i don't want yer husband.. i want you:) Oh yeah, I'm a much better bed partner. Cause yeah, I'm a bit more confidant. Though, he is too..... there. (everybody enjoying this? haha) That's good. Cause HE would kill me if he knew I was talking like this about HIM online. Quote: But, i understand, if your husband is a jealous sort, you might not want him "checking up" on you.... if you are being open . Uh, huh. Point and case right there. Quote: What are you like in "real life", around him? Do you act "flirty" or does he get angry if you are super friendly to other men? I am just curious. Yup, I'm a flirty type person. I mean, no, I don't hang on men or anything of the sort, it's just my personality. Actually, HE is a huge flirt. Sheet, you should see him out drinking at karaoke and dancing like a fool with them, and with my sisters. (I have 4 of them...) He's a regular Don Juan. BUT... he knows I'm confident enough to not let it worry me. I'm the jealous type too, but only if I feel I really have something to worry about. His eyes can wander where they want, but his dam.n hands better stay on ME. And I most likely wouldn't even take it out on him, I'd go after the girl first. :whistle: But, no, we are both flirty-type people. It's when men... approach ME.... or become too close of a buddy of mine....and he starts thinking he knows what THEY are thinking... Then he freaks out. I think, had he of been involved here from the get-go, he'd be okay with it... but he never cared to. Quote: (Hehe, a few months ago, he let me share a video of US with someone though... that was a big step for him, and it shocked me. Heck, i was shocked that he even MADE the recording!:) Ok.. i know.. TMI!
Well, tell ya what, send me the video: singin_along(at)yahoo(dot)cum (oops, did I spell that wrong?)..... ha.... and I'll tell you my honest opinion on wether or not Justy need be shy. (wow!! I'm starting to like my plan) :dancin:
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MrOctober has web cam and up for critiquing videos
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Charmin_Gibson
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Pssstttt........ Gilly, I think you're being hit on again. :D
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Charmin_Gibson
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And, actually, flirting can go too far. I learned this from experience, the hard way.
I am now a cyber-mommy. Who knew about cyber-babies, and how easy it was to become cyber-pregnant? And even had I of known, who'd of thunk there was such a thing as cyber-birth control to safeguard against this happening?
So, I'm left with a cyber-baby to tend to, and the cyber-daddy wont help. I think he's trying to claim he did NOT have cyber-sex with me, and shirk his responsibility, dayum him. :no:
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Im willing to Pay Cyber Suport for any cyber sex Im involved with
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