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vettelady
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:11 am |
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BruceFan4Life - you sound like a very bitter person with a gigantic chip on your shoulder.
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Charmin_Gibson
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:18 am |
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Quote: I know I've given you too much power, so I'm taking it away again and will not react to anything you do in the future.
Wow Drea...... well said.
And I think you're taking the right stance to make this be over with.
And now, I'm out of here. 12:15 my time, and I'm still sitting here in my jammies. :shock: Next thing you know, I'll be watching Oprah on a daily basis. Somebody needs to get Charmin a job before she wastes away at her computer desk.
~Peace people~
And please do remember that it's NOT nice to talk about people when they're gone. :D :wave:
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_________________ ♥ Laugh your heart out, dance in the rain. Cherish the memories, ignore the pain. Love and learn, forget and forgive. Because you only have one life to live. ♥
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a10cgirl
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:21 am |
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Charmin,
The point is...Yes, this has gone way too far. There is a problem here when this kind of thing is allowed to go on. This stuff with Mark has been going on since this past winter. And people have just had enough. We are just asking for a solution to prevent this from happening again.
I have nothing else to say to Bruce.
I don't expect Phil to babysit us but there should be some rules. And if I'm not mistaken there is a rule against this sort of thing. But where is the enforcing it?
I realize Phil can only do so much. I don't blame him.
We need rules and we need those rules to be enforced.
When it gets to the point when our offline family and friends can't come on here to hear us something is wrong. Picture this......someone has their child to sit down with them to listen to something and the first thing that they see when the page is opened is those nasty remarks....Not critique...but nasty remarks about your character. And it could be your own sub you are showing to your child. Well...it's happened.
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Chuck2
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:26 am |
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a10cgirl @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:21 pm wrote: When it gets to the point when our offline family and friends can't come on here to hear us something is wrong. Picture this......someone has their child to sit down with them to listen to something and the first thing that they see when the page is opened is those nasty remarks....Not critique...but nasty remarks about your character. And it could be your own sub you are showing to your child. Well...it's happened.
That paints a very strong picture for me.
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:27 am |
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BlueStainedShoes @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:31 pm wrote: Well, no disrespect meant by ME either, but from what I see...... everyone is just making it snowball by keeping it going. And, I have alot of friends here who PM and email me daily... I DO know what's going on now.
I mean, so somebody is making stupid rude comments... Do the rest of you REALLY believe what he's saying? Truthfully Rita, Mark is a friend of mine too, I always listen to him when I'm in there, I love his singing, and he's sent me songs as well as all you other people.... But he is talented enough that he really should not take any of this to heart. The person doing it has ALREADY ADMITTED that he said everything he did out of spite... so, pretty much - he doesn't beleive what he's writing either.
So, ignore his posts. My gosh, they can't go on forever. He himself would have came out looking the bad guy for doing all the slamming.... but now, with all that's going on, it's making everyone else look just as childish.
I see nothing at all wrong with everyone subbing a song under "L" to support Mark, and show that you stand behind him. Heck, QowboyVern was run out of there for alot worse reason than Mark was. I'm not gonna post that reason here, out of respect for him- I don't know if he'd want me to.... and Tony left because a couple were saying his guitar playing was fake.... Point is, if everyone ganged up every time something like this happened, we'd be WORSE than the middle east in there. This stuff would never stop.
Somebody has got to take the first step in ending it. It's like an LA gang war... the more one side retaliates, the more the other side is gonna feel the need to, and on and on.
And as for my comment about Phil- He is NOT here to be our babysitter, people assuming he IS has finally made him come in here to speak out. He can't handle all these little squabbles for us, that's not his job. And I'm sure he doesn't want or need the drama anyhow. I think we are ALL old enough- and should be mature enough- to resolve this on our own..... and to..... BEHAVE. Phil may add some "new rules" or "options" in the future, but he's not here to solve personal issues that should never have escalated like this to begin with.
Good god, think of all the outsiders who never post or sub either here or in SS... but come here EVERY DAY to listen to songs.... I'm sure half of them have deserted this site already, most likely rolling their eyes at us.
But now, what's been said has been said, what's been done has been done- people have shown their loyalty... and everyone can see where everyone stands. So... it needs to end. I know it can seem serious Rita... I've been slammed on subs before, more than once, and once I even slammed back. (shame on me.. but I did) And it did hurt my feelings a bit, nobody who sings likes to be told they sound like shyt.... but that was 2 years ago, and I'm still here singing. It all was washed under the bridge, and I'm even civil with this person now, cause we got past it. I did not allow friends to bash that person back, I did not hold a vendetta against them, I did not PM Phil to make them stop.... I handled it, and it went away.
I do not dislike ANYONE who is involved in this, I'm not gonna stop listening to any of them (though... he he... maybe they'll do that to ME next after this)... I just wish it would end. Cause it's certainly NOT gaining anybody anything. It's wasting time that could be spent subbing and listening. The points have all been proven... so let it rest.
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Charmin... perfectly said..
and btw.. have I told you I love you today? :hug: :doctor: :bouncer:
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:33 am |
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a10cgirl @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:21 pm wrote: I don't expect Phil to babysit us but there should be some rules. And if I'm not mistaken there is a rule against this sort of thing. But where is the enforcing it? I realize Phil can only do so much. I don't blame him.
We need rules and we need those rules to be enforced.
well guys.. speaking from experience as well as talking to Phill on other matters... Phill isn't the guy who makes the decisions around here.. so by asking Phill to create rules and such.. you're really barking up the wrong tree.. no matter what rule you are trying to suggest... so all that is happening is people are getting a negative impression of him.. when its not his duties to begin with..
There's this link
<<<<< Contact Us at the very bottom of Karaoke Scene section on the left side of the page.. that goes to the powers that make the decisions..
pm'ing Phill for rules and such is not the answer.. it goes beyond his responsibility as well it should..
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vettelady
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:42 am |
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An apology to Phil is in order too - I see the comment that was left on my sub was removed after all. I apologize and I thank you.
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a10cgirl
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:53 am |
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Foxe @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:33 pm wrote: a10cgirl @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:21 pm wrote: I don't expect Phil to babysit us but there should be some rules. And if I'm not mistaken there is a rule against this sort of thing. But where is the enforcing it? I realize Phil can only do so much. I don't blame him.
We need rules and we need those rules to be enforced.
well guys.. speaking from experience as well as talking to Phill on other matters... Phill isn't the guy who makes the decisions around here.. so by asking Phill to create rules and such.. you're really barking up the wrong tree.. no matter what rule you are trying to suggest... so all that is happening is people are getting a negative impression of him.. when its not his duties to begin with.. There's this link <<<<< Contact Us at the very bottom of Karaoke Scene section on the left side of the page.. that goes to the powers that make the decisions.. pm'ing Phill for rules and such is not the answer.. it goes beyond his responsibility as well it should..
Cindy,
I'm fully aware of Phil's role here. But Phil is the one who checks daily to see if any of this stuff goes on. He said that himself today in a post. I'm not blaming Phil. I have used the "Contact Us" many times this past year over this stuff and again today. And I'm sure I'll use it again.
The only person that has done anything so far is Phil....He's removed the comments and I realize that is about all he can do.
I know some other people don't understand who is in charge here but I think Phil has already made that clear to everyone.
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:57 am |
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a10cgirl @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:01 pm wrote: BlueStainedShoes @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:53 am wrote: Haha.... I see Phil stopped by.
... Just look at everyone behaving now. LMAO
*No disrespect meant, Phil, sir*
I'm glad you found the time to post a couple places though, cause from what all I've heard lately... I'm sure you've been bombarded with tons of PM's. Now maybe they'll stop. And in my opinion... it's kinda sad that we even need you to step in and say "BEHAVE!!". We should be able to handle little things on our like adults, and leave you to your, uh... scripting and all that shtuff that I don't understand anyhow.
*And my gawd... do I sound like a kiss A$$... or whut? * haha..
. Charmin, I mean no disrespect to you but there is nothing funny about what has been going on. It was time for Phil to get involved. It's not a matter of "behave". This is a lot more serious than you even realize.
and Rita.. who is also another of my friends.. I mean no disrespect to you either.. but ask you to take a step back.. and reread some of this thread.. Everyone wants to see this site return to fun and laughs right? Charmin and some of the people that were posting were trying to get back some of the lightheartedness that everyone has said they wanted from the site.. but then are seemingly reprimanded for not taking this seriously?
My thoughts are.. that in order for the site to get back to being fun then EVERYONE needs to step back, brush it off and let it go and not take it so seriously.. there are much worse things in life to take seriously aren't there? But if some can't do that.. then don't jump on the people that are trying to do so.
either you want it to go away or you don't.. telling someone they aren't taking it seriously enough after they've begun to try to lighten up things and provide some entertainment.. well.. that's not helping it go away..
so.. Charmin.. get your cute lil hinder back in here! :hug:
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 11:59 am |
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a10cgirl @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:53 pm wrote: Foxe @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:33 pm wrote: a10cgirl @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:21 pm wrote: Cindy, I'm fully aware of Phil's role here. But Phil is the one who checks daily to see if any of this stuff goes on. He said that himself today in a post. I'm not blaming Phil. I have used the "Contact Us" many times this past year over this stuff and again today. And I'm sure I'll use it again. The only person that has done anything so far is Phil....He's removed the comments and I realize that is about all he can do. I know some other people don't understand who is in charge here but I think Phil has already made that clear to everyone.
well obviously he doesn't feel that he has since according to the pm I got from him earlier asking that some of the older members help him put the record straight..
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BruceFan4Life
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 12:18 pm |
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amazing how you apologize to me in one post and then you insult me in the next, Drea. That's what I mean about the hypocrisy around here. It must have been really killing you to say you were sorry........ for stooping to my level....another back handed compliment. You folks just can't admit that this was all of marks doing. Angie left a comment on one of mark's songs as did many other people. He didn't chastise anyone else that left a comment because the other comments were just more fluff. That seems to be all that is allowed on SS as far as the GROUP Is concerned. If you don't worship the Queen Bee, you get attacked by the hive. No Honesty is allowed. Angie was honest and Mark pounced on her. I told him that he was being a jerk and the HIVE attacked me. I can defend my actions. I'm proud of sticking up for a total stranger. You "people" are like the popular kids in high school that attack anyone who isn't part of your group but the people in your group can do no wrong in your eyes. I'd rather be me. AS far as attention goes, I'd rather have the attention of a few that really like me than a crowd of "fans" that just use me for free stuff. I don't need a bunch of whiners telling me that I can sing well. I know that I sing well and a negative comment wouldn't change the way I feel about that. I wouldn't get my knickers all in a bunch because someone said I was straining on a song. There are lots of songs that I strain to sing well. No big deal. I'm happy with whatever singing ability I have. There are better singers and there are worse singers than me. I stood up for a total stranger. Remeber THAT. Mark had to have a bunch of women stand up for him. What a hero! I guess maybe I should sub a song with some footage from REAL SPORTS on HBO showing handicapped people so I can garner some more sympathy from the HIve?
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 12:35 pm |
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Oh man, I'm watching wrestling and Blackjack Mulligan just poked Haystacks Calhoun in the eyes while the referee was distracted by Blackjack's manager, Classy Freddy Blassy, off of ringside. It's okay, because Mulligan had Haystacks in an Atomic Knee Lock, and I was sure and shillin' ol' Haystacks was gonna lose, but he suddenly rallied and came back with a Boston Armpit Bite, made a clean break of it and flattened Mulligan with a flying free fall from the top rope...very exciting.
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:00 pm |
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ahh whatever happened to the good ol days.. with Hulk Hogan.. Jessie Ventura.. (Oh yeah pre-Gov days)... Andre the Giant.. Jake the Snake.. Hart Foundation..
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Chuck2
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:03 pm |
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Foxe @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 4:00 pm wrote: ahh whatever happened to the good ol days.. with Hulk Hogan.. Jessie Ventura.. (Oh yeah pre-Gov days)... Andre the Giant.. Jake the Snake.. Hart Foundation.. They used to really promote back then. I know most of those names and I never watched wrestling.
Mud.
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:06 pm |
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Don't forget the irrepressible Gorilla Monsoon!
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:08 pm |
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Chuck2 @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 4:03 pm wrote: wrestling.
Mud.
did you just say you wanted to Mud Wrestle? hmm... now where the heck is that Charmin girl at when I need her? geeeeez... how long is the Oprah show exactly?
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Chuck2
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:09 pm |
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Foxe @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 4:08 pm wrote: Chuck2 @ Mon Aug 07, 2006 4:03 pm wrote: wrestling.
Mud. did you just say you wanted to Mud Wrestle? hmm... now where the heck is that Charmin girl at when I need her? geeeeez... how long is the Oprah show exactly? I got her pinned down in another thread. She said something about duct tape too.
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:17 pm |
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Ohhhhhhhh lordy!! not the "D" word!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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milo
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:18 pm |
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Quote: now where the heck is that Charmin girl at when I need her? geeeeez... how long is the Oprah show exactly
awwwwww...charmin, charmin, charmin....it's always charmin! what about me?!
hmmmmm...did you catch that where chuck mentioned duct tape?
EDIT: i see that you did....
i never watched wrestling either but for some reason i sure do know who The Rock is....
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Foxe
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 1:21 pm |
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MILO BABYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!! you lurker you .. uhhh yeah that bit about Charmin.. you know it was really just to get you to come out of hiding right??
now... about this duct tape thing .. yeah like *I* would miss that.. NOT :shock: :shock:
and ohhhhhhhhh yes.. The Rock... mmmm mmmmmmmm mmmmm mmmmmm mmmmmm
as Toby Keith would say.. gotta getcha some... :O
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