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Author:  karyoker [ Sun May 06, 2007 11:21 am ]
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Our family has had the three deaths in the last few weeks one niece only 50...My family is getting into the habit of saying luvya man.... Now friends and karaoke customers.. I had no less than 6 singers last night hugging and saying luvya.. Ive always been a hard (@$%&#!)... But once you get in the habit of saying the most important 3 words in the world you are forming spiritual bonds with family and friends Next time you are hosting on the mic say Hey I Love You Guys... And all the immaterial bs and crap is gone!!!!
Author:  Steven Kaplan [ Sun May 06, 2007 12:57 pm ]
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I Love You Guys... And all the immaterial bs and crap is gone!!!!


True Ollie.   Too many put energy into areas that really don't matter given the broader scope. It takes slaps in the fact (of reality) for many to realize WHY others have been saying "Don't sweat the small stuff" for a LONG time -BASICALLY,  What is it that's really important to us ?  (Problem is, in our culture it's NOT EASY for a guy to feel comfortable saying those three worlds, at least those of us that grew up in a time where "The John Wayne" complex crap inundated males with gendre-based stereotypical behaviour),  in fact it's down right friggin hard to say those three words  LMAO.  Even saying terms such as "pretty" and "cute", etc...  Tough tough tough.. While males were allowed to hug in europe,  there was a term for guys that did that in the US in the 60's.....  Of course if they were old, we called them grandfathers  LMAO.  Guys that are brought up told they must appear stoic on the exterior have a tough time saying a word like Lo_e...  I'd imagine that never having kids can make recognising that not all love need to be of the type that makes a person feel vulnerable too. Of course this becomes MY own problem.  I agree with you Ollie.  My father never said that to me until he was 80, and that's because my mom kept yelling at him  LOL .  I told my mom, leave him alone, nothing wrong with him not saying it  LOL

In my case I never was a "tough" person.  I was always emotionally driven.  I suppose this is why I struggled on the exterior that much harder to "conform".

BUT,  you are correct here Ollie.   As people age and mellow, I see how they become less ego driven.

OK,  I'll break down...

I love you Kappy  :doctor:
Author:  Steven Kaplan [ Sun May 06, 2007 1:39 pm ]
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I love you Kappy  



and I, you !
Author:  karyoker [ Sun May 06, 2007 4:38 pm ]
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Kappy the majority of young people in this world is tired of the extreme HATE BS Oh you have to be anti-war oh you need to be green.. They have it to point now if you even think about sex you are a PREDATOR and you need to be branded for life...

All these extremist views are borne out of hate and judgement and greed..Normal people are tired of it....They are uniting in an eternal bond which will prevail again. Hate is short lived Love is eternal.. And if you think your hate will outlast love then you have no clue about life. Hate spurs a momentary lack of judgement and negative energy Love spurs a bond and energy which lasts forever...
Author:  milo [ Sun May 06, 2007 4:58 pm ]
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my mother was raised not to show emotion or affection....so was i....it's only been in the last few years the we tell each other 'i love you' and me & my siblings are now all very affectionate....

i remember when i went to visit a friend of mine, she and her brother actually hugged and said 'i love you'...i thot 'are you kidding me?'   :shock:

i broke the cycle with my sons.... :D

i also used to have the mindset of 'i told you once that i loved you, i'll let you know if i change my mind'

my sweetie and i tell each other 'i love you' constantly....i'll never get tired of saying it or hearing it....i think the more you can show your love, the deeper that love  grows....

kappy you have no idea how your display of love for yourself has touched my heart....i wish you could see the tears of laughter....errrrrrrrr.....joy running down my face
Author:  Steven Kaplan [ Sun May 06, 2007 4:59 pm ]
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Hate spurs a momentary lack of judgement and negative energy Love spurs a bond and energy which lasts forever...


It's certainly a strong destructive emotion for all.  Especially the individual harboring such an emotion.
Author:  Steven Kaplan [ Sun May 06, 2007 6:26 pm ]
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kappy you have no idea how your display of love for yourself has touched my heart....i wish you could see the tears of laughter....errrrrrrrr.....joy running down my face




Well,  After I read that mush that I said earlier,  I had to run directly to the bathroom, and ended up washing my hands for four hours..  I still feel so dirty,  and wimpy...  I can't believe I broke down and had such a "Hallmark moment".  Especially in front of an audience...blech !
Author:  Steven Kaplan [ Sun May 06, 2007 6:28 pm ]
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my sweetie and i tell each other 'i love you' constantly


He says that to a few of the guys in here too,   I finally had to block his PM's,  I got sick of him telling me how much he loves me, only to lead into "What are you wearing Kappy?"....  Don't fall for it !


LMAO
Author:  Isis [ Sun May 06, 2007 7:19 pm ]
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Steven Kaplan @ Sun May 06, 2007 8:28 pm wrote:
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my sweetie and i tell each other 'i love you' constantly


He says that to a few of the guys in here too,   I finally had to block his PM's,  I got sick of him telling me how much he loves me, only to lead into "What are you wearing Kappy?"....  Don't fall for it !


LMAO


While we are on the subject.. What ARE you wearing Kappy???

And Btw.. I love many here on this site and would do most anything for them.. Especially the ones I have met as they have all been wonderful people....

Keep spreading the love Ollie.. We love you!!!
Author:  milo [ Sun May 06, 2007 7:27 pm ]
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While we are on the subject.. What ARE you wearing Kappy???


HE is wearing my brand new black dress that i have never worn yet....this really burns me up, bad enough he gets to wear it before i have a chance, worse that he looks better in it than i do....


hi isis....you love me?  there may be a chance that i may be visiting texas this summer....are you anywhere near arlington?  that would be so great if you were, i'd definitely make a side trip to see you guys.... :hug:
Author:  Isis [ Sun May 06, 2007 7:34 pm ]
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milo @ Sun May 06, 2007 9:27 pm wrote:
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While we are on the subject.. What ARE you wearing Kappy???


HE is wearing my brand new black dress that i have never worn yet....this really burns me up, bad enough he gets to wear it before i have a chance, worse that he looks better in it than i do....


hi isis....you love me?  there may be a chance that i may be visiting texas this summer....are you anywhere near arlington?  that would be so great if you were, i'd definitely make a side trip to see you guys.... :hug:


Darn the luck on that dress.. Geez I remember seeing him in a yellow number about a year ago.. I thought he had gotten past all that....

Arlington.. You say Arlington.. Why yes.. I am right by Arlington.. Sing there all the time... Only about 5 minutes away for me...<Had to edit>.. By all means let me know when you will be here and we will get you all set up with Karaoke and the Texas Crew....

And yes Milo.. I lubs you.. You are my sista!!!!
Author:  Charmin_Gibson [ Mon May 07, 2007 8:18 am ]
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I've been through a death of a close family member...... I lost a brother when he was 25 and I was 18. The first thing that crosses your mind is "did they know? should I have said it more often? did they REALLY know?"....... Losing someone you care very much about makes you want to take the time to make every day the best it can be with those still around you.

But I was raised in a very tight knit family. My husband still (after being married 21 years) thinks it's odd how we all hug and kiss goodbye, and even when I hang up the phone with my mom or dad, the ending is "Okay, talk to ya later, I love you"...... that's just how we were raised.

On the other hand, excepting the times it's family.... sometimes (and don't berate me for saying so).... sometimes, it's just 3 little words. And they fail to mean anything, if it's not shown as well as spoken. I guess I'm more of an "actions speak louder than words" type of thinker. People often misuse the saying, and think it fixes all- but it doesn't.

But I love ya all too (ha- most of you anyhow) You're all too often my home away from home when I need a place to crash:) ..... as Sharon said, keep spreading the love Ollie. Lord knows the world needs it:)
Author:  Chuck2 [ Wed May 09, 2007 9:11 am ]
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As long as we're already here...

I love you guys too.
Author:  Charmin_Gibson [ Wed May 09, 2007 9:27 am ]
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Chuck2 @ Wed May 09, 2007 9:11 am wrote:
As long as we're already here...

I love you guys too.



I KNEW it......

THAT'S why you keep stalking me around the forums:)

LMAO........ J/K

Great to see ya Chuckles.  :wave:


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Author:  Babs [ Wed May 09, 2007 9:59 am ]
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Love Love love love  Ya ALL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author:  Steven Kaplan [ Mon May 14, 2007 6:56 am ]
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All you need is love, love is all you need
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