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Author:  Crystal [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:04 pm ]
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..... where I've been lately.... i have some news:

You may have noticed i haven't been online for the past few weeks.... and I won't be for quite some time. The reason is because my husband, Tyson and I have seperated.

I wouldn't be able to explain why unless you'd like to read a novel, so to make a long story short.... we want different futures and we have different beliefs

I will be moving out at the end of the month and Tyson gets the computer, so I won't be online untill I can save up for my own or when I'm at my parents house using theirs. I'm sorry I couldn't tell some of you (Deb, Matt, Tig, ml_texas and a few other members I've become close to) privately and explain a little better, but I'm sure you understand I haven't had a lot of time.

anyways... don't worry about me. This was all my decision and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that it was the best thing for me. I am excited to start a new life with a new job and live closer to my family.

Hopefully I won't be away too long! Love you all guys!!


Image-Crystal
Author:  maninblack [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:12 pm ]
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Best of luck to you, stay strong, stay focused. Let folks know how you are doing when you can.

Does that mean I can flirt with you now (yes everyone, I know that was in bad taste, but dayum she's so cute!!!!, I was gonna say hot, but I figured you folks would think that was even more in bad taste than what I had already done, okay I'll shut up now) :D

James
Maninblack
Author:  Crystal [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:16 pm ]
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LOL! Thanks, James  :hug:

awwww..... I just noticed that I got my second star and I wasn't around to see it happen!!!
Author:  Singing Squid [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:20 pm ]
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:hug:

If there's anything I can do for you...which, I know, from down here ain't much...all you have to do is say so...

We love you and will miss you while you're gone, so get back ASAP!!  :bawling:

:hug:

And...congrats on Star #2...gonna come up with a creative pic to exploit it?  :brows:

(c'mon...did you REALLY think I was gonna NOT flirt with you in an entire post?  LOL )

Just take it easy and keep us posted!
Author:  maninblack [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:23 pm ]
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Crystal @ Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:16 am wrote:
LOL! Thanks, James  :hug:

awwww..... I just noticed that I got my second star and I wasn't around to see it happen!!!


Uh, that one's from me, just to let you know everytime I see you, I think of the stars in the night skies.

(jeeze, did I just really say that or what, was I flirting? Oh my god, someone check my temp, I think I have a fever)

Dear god, next thing you know I'll be going to petting zoos and volunteering for Habitat for Humanity.
Author:  Crystal [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:23 pm ]
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thank u, Dave!! ur a doll  :hug:
Author:  Guest [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:27 pm ]
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Good Luck Crystal, I've been there and my prayers are with you.  I can tell you this much ... I was never so blessed than when my ex left me allowing me to meet my true love a year later.  So, life happens, and sometimes for a good reason.  Chin up and we look forward to hearing from you again soon with better news! :hug:
Author:  Charmin_Gibson [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:32 pm ]
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Crystal!!

That's kinda.... big news.  :(

I would say sorry to hear it, but.... it sounds like that is what you want. (??)

Sometimes, I guess it's for the best that 2 people go their seperate ways. If that's the case, I applaud ya for being brave enough to do what you feel is best. So many people jsut hang on to a marriage for all the wrong reasons, cause they think it's "the thing to do".

I did notice, a little while back, that you weren't hanging around, but then I have not been on near as much as I used to... so it's hard for me to keep track of who is here and who's not.

Dang, we should all pitch in and help get ya a computer.  :yes:

Well, whatever you do in the long run, I hope it's something that you can get adapted to easily enough. After marriage, just not having a guy... around... to lean on, would be a little hard I guess.

NOT that I lean on a guy, mind you, but most women do.

Hugs girl, even if you are the one who initiated it, I know it must be rough on ya.  :wave:


.
Author:  Keith02 [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:10 pm ]
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You GO, Girl! :hi5:

I know this was not an easy decision for you, and I am sure you know what is best. I am also certain you tried your best in your marriage and you aren't the type to give up easily.

I figure he was lucky to know you for as long as he did, and that hopefully he understands your reasons....Please don't either of you feel you failed, ok?

Little Lady, you need a computer. I build computers for chits n grins. If you want a machine, I will throw one together and ship it to you. You scrape up a monitor, keyboard, mouse and a copy of Windows and you will be back on line quick......

OR, you can wait just two weeks and I will have a nice little internet ready machine for you totally free of charge.

I am building my daughter a new computer for her birthday and hers will soon be spare. It already has WinME installed and is internet ready.

Just let me know.........I will PM you my home phone #

Keep yer chin up! :D
Author:  Babs [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:25 pm ]
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What a thoughtful offer Keith - I take my hat off to you.
  ( just my hat - I know your mind to well LMAO )

Crystal - I have to say ditto to what has already been said. I especially applaud your strength.  :hug:
You are young and beautiful and have a life time ahead of you. Good luck with all you do.
Author:  Keith02 [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:36 pm ]
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Babs @ Tue Oct 03, 2006 12:25 am wrote:
What a thoughtful offer Keith - I take my hat off to you.
  ( just my hat - I know your mind to well LMAO )

Crystal - I have to say ditto to what has already been said. I especially applaud your strength.  :hug:
You are young and beautiful and have a life time ahead of you. Good luck with all you do.
Babs............Lady, like the guys said in the song...."You can leave your hat on". LMAO

God, I love that song! :dancin:
Author:  MorganLeFey [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:37 pm ]
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Crystal sweetheart I have been there. Regardless of your decision or no, the break of a relationship has a grieving process to go through same as a death.
Do get a computer hon you will need the distraction as it sounds like you will need to save hard to rebuild your life. You need to have friends around you even if it is just at the other end of a monitor, it beats the hell out of fluffy slippers and a good book (come to think of it an internet connections is bout the price of a good book and will last longer)
hugs honey
Author:  Babs [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:46 pm ]
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LMAO Come to think of it Morgan that is how I got hooked on this forum.
Trying to distract myself from a bad breakup.
Author:  Keith02 [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:58 pm ]
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Babs @ Tue Oct 03, 2006 12:46 am wrote:
LMAO Come to think of it Morgan that is how I got hooked on this forum.
Trying to distract myself from a bad breakup.
Bad break-up?......Is there such a thing?...I thought there was once.

I was actually on my knees in front of her with a gun to my head....I swear.

Somehow, I heard her say, "Please don't do this to me."

She said "ME".......She didn't say, "Keith, please don't hurt YOURSELF"......She said "Don't do this to ME".

The only thing that saved my life was I somehow heard that word "ME".......And it became evident that everything had always been about her, not me.

It was just a whisper, but I heard it.......Then it became a scream that kept echoing in my head til I put the gun down and got back on my feet and started taking care of ME

Now I am a better man for any woman. They know I will take care of me and they respect me because of it.
Author:  MorganLeFey [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:02 pm ]
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to be honest hon if the internet had made more of an impact 11 years ago I may not have bothered getting married again. Then again if I hadnt got married again I wouldnt be singing so I guess thats a stupid thing to say, plus I would have to mow my lawns and vacuum my own floor hehehehe
Author:  MorganLeFey [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:03 pm ]
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oh yeah and he does look kinda cute wearing nothing but a bbq apron
I would sub a pic but ummm I think I would be banned
Author:  Babs [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:07 pm ]
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MorganLeFey @ Tue Oct 03, 2006 2:03 am wrote:
oh yeah and he does look kinda cute wearing nothing but a bbq apron
I would sub a pic but ummm I think I would be banned


That's what PM are for  :whistle:
Author:  MorganLeFey [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:12 pm ]
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lmao I cant see how to post a pic on pm
Author:  Keith02 [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:15 pm ]
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MorganLeFey @ Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:03 am wrote:
oh yeah and he does look kinda cute wearing nothing but a bbq apron
I would sub a pic but ummm I think I would be banned
My cute young wife rides the mower and sweeps the floor......She hauls the hay and horse feed and stacks it.....She watches my expression to see if I like her cooking.......I usually wash the laundry, but she folds and puts it away.....When I am feeling generous, I hire Robbie to cut the grass for her....Whenever she slacked off on the cooking, I took myself out to eat....If the house got messy, I hired a maid for my bathroom only.

She wanted a new car...I told her to go buy one...With her money.

I'm serious.

I don't spoil her, and I couldn't scrape her off me if I tried.

She respects me.....Therefore I respect her.
Author:  pflugerville [ Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:19 pm ]
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:hug: nothing more to add that i haven't already told you.  chin up!
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