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We just got our next posting message (we are moving the end of sept.)

And we didn't get ANY of our choices. We were TOLD we were going to get the place we really wanted.. Actually, the guy who almost failed the COURSE got that choice, and the next worst guy, got our next choice.

We got the ONLY place, that I said I would break UP with my husband, if I had to go to.

and, that is where we are getting sent.

Next month.

And I can't stop crying.

I am going to be miserable, and so is my daughter. We are the ONLY family in the course, and they sent ALL of the single guys to the places we wanted to go. THE ONLY family.


see ya.

Hey Gilly:
Sorry to hear that you have to move..hopefully you can stay a part of us here at KS where you are going...if not, you'll be missed. Where exactly are you being sent to? Anyway, keep your chin up and I'll be praying for you. - Tonya

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OH GOD NO!!!!!  They sent you to NDHQ (the Canadian version of the Pentagon) in Ottawa.  The inhumanity of it all.

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Sorry to hear that.  Take care, dear.    (hope that helps a bit)  Do continue to join us online whenever possible.

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I love being a mom!

Sorry to hear that Gilly. But please look at the bigger picture. You will be with your husband and daughter. You'll all be together trying to make the best of it. You wont be alone. Anytime you feel lonley we'll all be here for you as always. Good Luck and take care.

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Kelley
Star Sounds Karaoke & Mobile Recording Studio


[shadow=black][scroll]You have to respect your audience. Without them, you're essentially standing alone, singing to yourself....KD Lang[/scroll][/shadow]

Dont worry Gilly Florida's not that bad ...

J/K

Gilly just remember      wherever you go...there you are...

You have a loving Family and you will be just fine.. plus you have us to help you through it


Lets make it an adventure

Though I don't know where this place is, I'm sorry to hear you are unhappy with it. Please don't blame your husband, for I'm sure it is beyond his control. He needs your support more than ever now. Familys belong together no matter where that might be. I pray everthing works out for the best..........jj

Cheer up Gilly,  :hug:   you could be moving closer to really good karaoke.    LMAO

Hey Gilly, I spent some time in the military and postings are rarely as bad as you think they will be.  

Where exactly are you going to be?

If it's close enough, I'll get Larry and the mule and we'll come visit!

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Gilly I'm so sorry to hear you're upset. Maybe it will be better than you think.
Try to think of it as an adventure and remember nothing is forever.  :hug:

Besides I can't image it being all that bad being surrounded by men -  LMAO
Yikes did I say that?

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Just take it one day at a time.  I was in the Navy myself (did someone just faint?) but my partner comes from a military family and when his folks are over I hear their stories about certain living quarters and locations they had to live in and they actually laugh about these things now and so will you one day. So just stick your chin up and remember it's only for a while!

Gilly I feel for you, no looking on the bright side here, I know what its like to have to take a position where you feel isolated and lonely and like a square peg in a round hole. I cant offer you any advice, I just hope your relationship is strong enough to ride through until you either change your opinion of your post or until you are re-posted.

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With all new things come trouble, and difficulties. Yet pain, and hardship often give birth to growth, and beauty.

~Bill

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as a former military guy, I can tell you that sometimes, you just gotta start with the basics... right now, that's your family. Concentrate on that, and have him apply for another posting. Where exactly are you going?

Hi Gilly.  Well I've never been in the military (did someone just laugh and say duhhhhh.....! ), but I'm feeling bad for you  :( .  It'd be tough to move around from place to place no matter what the reason.  I hope you can eventually feel better about this move!

You're right Gilly, that place is worse than Ottawa.

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Hi GIlly, I'm sorry to hear about your husband's next post. How long will he have to stay at that assignment?

I hate to be insensitive, but just remember that when you said "I do" to a military man, this was the life you committed to, so you have to make the best of it. Just take a day and find the local karaoke bar and you'll be fine!!

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KJ, FL

I didn't want to publically anounce WHERE i was going, as I didn't want to insult anyone that may be from there. Let's just say.... Lol, going to a karaoke bar won't be an option:) (esp. since I DON"T do karaoke!)... Timberlea, heck, no more even listening to the freaking RADIO, if you know what I mean. Heck, i don't even like driving THROUGH there, let alone living there. And, we have no idea how long we will live there. Could be 1 year, could be ten. No idea. I just can't stand the idea, that they sent single guys, young ssingle guys TO OUR HOME, in NS, and us, the only family in the whole 20 guys, get sent to a place, where the re-adjustment will be hard on me and my daughter. Apparently, it appears as though it was done alphabetically. The guys all sat down and compared.... The first few got their first choice, and on and on. Justy was the only one to get NONE of his choices, and his last name starts with "V":) Yes, it will all work out... but It isn't just that it is bad place. Heck, it IS beautiful there... that simply ISN"T the problem.

And, I didn't marry a military man. He joined AFTER.

Hopefully Justy will be able to ask to be assigned to NS. Hallifax would be nice. Just watch out for those berlea types. Timberlea.