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ok..how would yall like to hear all about it? seriously???

Dee...you and everyone with half an eye know that I am NOT a mean person..but after going into your sub today..i think its time that someone says SOMETHING. and Phil I will apologize in advance and if you feel the need to ban me I will understand but enough is really enough. Ive seee threads finally deleted..and Dee asked to leave that stuff in private and yet on every comment every sub..its "please help me im falling" sigh. Now the sub I just went into listen to has this in the description box..and since i cant reply much in the tiny space allotted me..im bringing it to you here Phil..cuz if I can promise you ..havin witnesssed this same mess in another place..exactly the same only the names have changed..its a real turn off .. this is what i read.....

I have to say somwthing here- I keep receiving letters from a woman ? stalker- and she has threatened me - I don't think I should continue to stay on this site- when she claims that YOU all laugh and make fun of my songs- and she mentioned names in particular- I have cried my last tears- I am also going through a depression because of my illness- If PHILL does not look into this- I may have an attorney look into it- because I will not have her hurt your site PHILL- some names being mentioned and the perpetrators as well. I came here just to have fun and she is winning because I will most likely have to quit- she says for me to leave- I have her name and addy and DTS had it as well -and they refused my brother her UP address- so why can I not get the IP addy from them? I am at a loss for words and am very ill, both physically and yes mentally with severe depression- I don't know what to do or how to get RID of this person... I ask for your help please..PM me and I will give you what she has already said and whose names she has already mentioned...I am so sick and ill over this- if somrone has a problem with me- PLEASE just inform me- why do YOU have to break my spirit- I once had a beautiful spirit and now it seems it has disappeared into thin air- I do not wish my illness on her or her relatives nor friends- If I did not have my sons, I would not be here right now writng this- I am pleading with someone to help me qith thishuge dilemma I am having- Leave me alone and let me love my LIFE - what LIFE I have left with my sons- PHILL please help me with this problem I am having to deal with this on an everyday basis- Obviously this person is very sick and in need of some ccouceling in which she ismaking me look ike the one who needs it- my Father and brothers even write leters on DTS concerning this type of behavoir and was asked by a mod-#1 to never speak of DEE or her condiiton again on there- and my brother was removed from tjat site like I wasalso- I don't care , I just wanted to have fun and she also said that YOU discuss DEE all the time...so I think it is best if I just leave like she has asked me to...Thankyou and goodbye. Love, DEE xo- I truly do LOVE you with sincerity yet I am filled with heartful sadness...as my sons are too...If anyone on here has knowledge if attornery's/law- please PM me- The Attorney General of Maine has already been contacted and sent all of her letters- BUT the most important aspect of all is that DARE TO SING has the IP address of this person and it seems they do not want to give it out...IN court they will have to...I am afraid of my life, and will NOT subject Phills entertaining place with this marlarkey...thankyou and may God bless YOUall- I will miss you dearly- DEE- here you go Michelle YOU got what YOU wanted... I KNOW AOME OF YOU HAVE SAID THAT YOU DO NOT WANT RO READ ANYMORE- WHAT ID THIS WAS YOU -GOING THROUGH THIS HELL AND TORTURE EVERYDAY OF YIUR LOFE- WOULDN'T YOU WANT US TO KNOW AND TRY TO HELPYOU- THIS IS ALL I AM ASKING BECAUAE I AM AT A POINT THAT I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO...SORRY ABOUT THE LONG LETER TO SOME OF YOU . PLEASE TRY PUTTING THE SHOE ON YOUR FOOT AND THINK ABOUT WHAT TO SAY & DO ??? THIS IS ALL I AM ASKING...


ok..first what can we do??? if the attorney general cant stop the culprit what can Phil do..hes not a cop hes a website admin...?????
secondly..this is all the same stuff u claimed over a year ago in another forum..just the names were differnt..u were new threre..and you made your following in the tens of threads you started concernin how you were mistreated..and terrified..if the net is doin this to your life Dee.. seriously..one mother to another..get off of it!!!!

secondly...this could all possibly be tru...ive had hackers, ive had haters..etc...butttt I dint let them drive me to the point of psychotrophic medication. you truly have to evaluate this situation from a differnt standpoint..not the poor dee one but ..im my own woman and im goin to put a stop to this and stop lettin it rule me..

thirdly..please..stop making strangers here to just enjoy their time..deal with this mess agin and agin...you have thousands of friends online i saw u type that somewhere recently...enlist their aid..thru the use of email..and get the matter settled..

last..sigh..please stop...call the police..call the president..but pleaseeeeeeeeee stop plyin us with books on how mistreated you are..how sick you are..hun..you would be SHOCKED to hear the medical conditions of the people here..including myself.. i chose to keep it between me and my closest friends..i dont want pity..i want to sing! you have a wonderful voice dee..step back from all this..and either just sing and enjoy.....or let it drive you insane.


YOu know where I work..and I have seen this type of behaviour that you are exhibiting..its called attention seeking.. dee people will like you just for being yourself..you dont have to constantly draw attention to your self thru negative ports..its not necessary..

ok..i know those who dont know me will think i was just bein a mean ole hag..those who do..and even DEE knows...thats not the case..but enough is enough..this site is very special.. and it should stay that way. and i truly dont think DEE is tryin to kill the site...

sing some songs...listen to some songs..and smile...feel some peace..but pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee get a grip...sigh..

Read every words of your post and am still confused as ever. Something is wrong somewhere. I got confused even when commenting on the song she sub.

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I can neither confirm nor deny ever having or knowing anything about nothing.... mrscott

I couldn't have said it better myself, Kass....


Steve

It is a long long story.....*sigh*...a past that just won't go away

in a nutshell......

the wrong is it doesnt belong in public places for all of us to read about it should be handled with the authorities and in private.....if you havent been around the other forums and here recently it would be hard to understand..sorry.

Dee..

let me add you KNOW this is not a personal attack on you..YOU keep bringing this to our attention and there is no other way to address it. I havnt answered pms intentionally cuz i didnt want to complicate my currently happy life with drama..

Been around dst and seen the name there. This drive me nuts?

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I can neither confirm nor deny ever having or knowing anything about nothing.... mrscott

does the attorney general work on retainer or probono....id like to hire him for a speeding ticket i cant seem to get out of........

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Gladly helping Kappy to become cyber immortal !!

im sorry....we all loved dee at one time or another and i think she means well at times but i agree with kass...im here because of the crap that erupted over "there" and i know medical situations are sad and i pray to this day for dee to be well but i do think this stuff can be resumed off the boards with just phill...i wish you happiness dee, but lets keep the front pages happy and uncontroversial...

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Gladly helping Kappy to become cyber immortal !!

very well and respectfully said mikey.

Echoing what dd and new day said. Get well please and real soon.

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I can neither confirm nor deny ever having or knowing anything about nothing.... mrscott

Well, at least Dee did go back to her sub and delete all that nonsense from the description box. She changed it to simply read, Hello -I love you all-.

That's much better than what she had originally typed into the song description box on her sub, entitled "You Are So Beautiful".

What was originally there, is everything that Kass copied and pasted above. Like Kass, I'm wondering how in the world, Dee got all that text into a song description box, but somehow, she did. I can vouch for that because I to, read that same exact text on her sub, EXACTLTY as Kass pasted Dee's original comment, above. I guarantee you that Kass did not change a single word from the original text that was originally in the description box of Dee's sub.


Steve

Yes.. I too read the post, and it is exactly as written in Kass's original post.. I so want to keep the front pages happy and free from discontent.. glad to see the letter was removed.. I understand that illness robs us of many pleasures in life..I deal daily with my daughters illness.. and then when things didn't seem like they could get worse...finding out that a dear loved one is losing his life to cancer was another blow to my heart...While I curse the unfairness of life at times I have to seek the joy... One of the things that gets me back in prospective is going in and out of the childrens hospital I am amazed at the sunshine and spirit these very ill children have...many facing death at such a young age..When I am down I think about those kids..and thier beautiful smiles..I think about my daughters amazing spirit and I pull myself back up and go on.

For Dee...My hope is that in what ever you are facing that you find some kind of peace for your tortured spirit.. after reading the description with the sub...I was too depressed to listen..and that is such a shame.. seek an attorney.. do what ever you need to do.. but please far away from the Latest subs page..lets keep it a place of camraderie..post your beautiful songs nurture your spirit with the gift of song from others... peace be with you..

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Give the gift of Life

I guess I missed the memo... the only person I have seen bring anything up in regards to Dee, her illness or harassment of Dee- is Dee herself... it is like trying to read chinese handwriting when I don't know how to read chinese... since one or two of us may have not ever seen the drama from DTS, this drama is kinda out of the blue, and I agree with the others that have said it should not be played out in the public forum (yes I have the ability to agree with some of you) because you will get people like me, who have no clue to the history, making comments on it... be well and keep on singing- tig

I agree...... I don't have the SLIGHTEST clue where all this came from.... I'm very sorry for Dee and her illness..... I've seen what depression can do to people. I hope she finds herself and her happiness, but I hope she finds it with the help of professionals instead of a web admin and a bunch of karaoke singers......

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Well said Donna...

I also read the post...I was surprised to even see Dee here as I must have read 30 times over the weekend that she was leaving....

Amen, I agree...As Kass said, many of us have illness in our families (self included) ...We are happy to pray for any and all, but lets spread cheer here...There's enough gloom and doom in the world...This is our escape!

There is a Contact Us link to the left here in the line-up....Great place to deposit problems....privatly....

The Lord is another great place to deposit them...He is always with us...and will give us strength to carry us through whatever...He has promised us that he will never leave us or forsake us....

In chatting with my friends here at SS I have learned we ALL have our share of heartaches and worries...Sickness and loss everywhere...and survivors of many things....

Suffice it to say, we come here for pleasure ( The great Majority anyway)....Lets keep all pages positive as Phil has asked...

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When I was young, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,  then I became an adult  and  realized  that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends...

Donna, Connie, Beautifully written....


Steve

I just wanted to say what a breath of "fresh air" this all is...I also came from the other site, tho I'd been a member here long before, and was a tad worried about the "drama" following to Singers Showcase.

I am thankful we have an incredible webguru in Phill who honestly, won't put up with any crap. He has helped create a friendly, welcoming forum and website that one and all are welcome to share, within reason!

Kass, I commend you on actually speaking out. I personally think you're voicing so many peoples thoughts who are too scared/shy/intimidated to bring it up themselves.

Phill has already kindly requested that anything negative regarding other sites, other members, and anything that just really isn't any of our business, stay away from Singers Showcase. I couldn't agree more...a lot of us have learned our lessons per se, in regards to getting too personal and too involved with online "stuff".

Anyone who has been involved on the internet for any length of time, has dealt with some interesting characters. You basically have a choice..You can react and invite the drama into your life. Or you can simply ignore it and focus on what's truly important. In Dee's case, I think that would be the real life family and friends who reportedly surround her night and day. As fun as the internet is, it's not "real life" and if I were that sick, I can't say (as much as I LOVE the internet) that I'd stay online if my time were near. I'd be taking my last moments and making them the best I could, with the real people in my life.

Anyways....it's fantastic to see everyone come together, and show their support on a situation they might or might not understand, for the good of the site. Phill has worked hard to make it a success, and it's the least we can do but respect his wishes.

Hats off to you Phill! (You have plenty of hats to choose from lately!)


Nicole

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Again, VERY WELL WRITTEN, Nicole!!


Steve

I decided to go check out Dee's last sub- you are so beautiful- and she has posted more in the song description and comments areas...