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Keith, you're a dayum brat.  LMAO

Vicki, If I were in your shoes.... I'd tend to think "affair". But that's cause my hubby is so thoughtless there would HAVE to be an underlying reason for it if he started buying me stuff and paying extra attention.

Maybe it's just that he feels he hasn't paid ya enough attention. (how long you been married? Cause if it's over 10 years, that's out of the question, men married 10+ years lose the capability to know that "attention" is even necessary)

So, there's my verdict:
If you've been married less than 10 years, he just really loves you (or you've been doing something really regular and really, really well lately)... If you've been married over 10 years, yup, it's an affair. Or, perhaps he only thought about it, got skeered, and feels he needs to make up for his bad thoughts. (but again, men married over 10 years don't think of them as "bad thoughts")

Hell, I don't think I understand men at all, so maybe I should quit supposing.

Just take the new stuff and be happy. If it's an affair, hell, you got all the new stuff, right?  :whistle: I'd encourage my hubby to have an affair if he'd start buying me new cars and stuff.  LOL

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Wait a minute! I was married to my first wife for 16 years.  I always brought her flowers, took her to special places, and bought her gifts.  I would often help her by vaccuming floors or doing the dishes, at times I would even cook a meal. More than anything, she never went a day without being told several times that I loved her.  I always left her little notes for her to find when she woke up in the morning telling her how much I loved her. I  think I did everything right in that catagory at least... It was my ex-wife that was having the affair on me.  That is what happened to our marriage.  She ran off with the  guy. My daughter tells me her mom says she made a huge mistake.  No kidding! Now she figures that out! I just hope my new wife will always appreciate being treated like she is loved and appreciated. --Mike

Wait a minute! I was married to my first wife for 16 years.  I always brought her flowers, took her to special places, and bought her gifts.  I would often help her by vaccuming floors or doing the dishes, at times I would even cook a meal. More than anything, she never went a day without being told several times that I loved her.  I always left her little notes for her to find when she woke up in the morning telling her how much I loved her. I  think I did everything right in that catagory at least... It was my ex-wife that was having the affair on me.  That is what happened to our marriage.  She ran off with the  guy. My daughter tells me her mom says she made a huge mistake.  No kidding! Now she figures that out! I just hope my new wife will always appreciate being treated like she is loved and appreciated. --Mike

Well said Charm

While you may not get along with Vicki some of us just downright love her, she's a good lady and I'm proud to call her friend  :yes:

BTW Keith, I'm waitin' on ya to throw sumpin at me but I won't duck--I'll just catch it and throw it right back atcha  :brows:

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Vicki, I think your husband is just being a nice, thoughtful guy! Things like this do actually happen sometimes.  :yes:   There's no sinister, ulterior motive behind it all. IMO

I agree.. Infidelity is no reason to break up..  LMAO

Vicki you know he isn't having an affair. He has always ,from what you've said, been pretty darn thoughtful. I think you said that more as a joke, right?

My guy does nice things for me all the time. I don't think it is the norm for men to give gifts for no reason and remember holidays, but some do. I was lucky enough to find a man like that too.

I find the more women become independent the more role reversal is happening. We work too, so they have to help with cooking and cleaning. We forget special holidays because we have so much on our plates it's hard to remember everything.

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Why JD, it sounds like you may know sumpin about the subject  LOL

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morning folks just woke up from a lovely sleep in its friday but its a holiday so I just made the most of it...meanwhile this wonderful man I am married to has begun painting the house. I shall finish the cup of tea he has made me then I am going to take the dog for a walk
after that...welll I think I will probably ensure he has a smile on his face a mile wide for the rest of the day

Mike darlin you did a grand job...but did you do it nekkid?

Lena thank you sweetheart for admiring my roses

Cat you are one hell of a woman to have my back and I love you

Charmin I have been married exactly 10 years and I still dont much like your taste in keiths

and keith he may be able to do as well, but never better...such is my healthy self opinion that I will never be less than any man or woman.

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Babs I am looking forward to meeting your man  :hug:

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Can someone please explain to me what "my taste in Keith's" is?

Vicki, take a joke, I was being my usual self. Thought you "liked" my smart aleck side?  :shock:  I'm sure there's no need to worry, your hubby is just being a nice guy. Men are the fickle creatures, they just like to SAY us women are. Perhaps he just feels the need to reassure you - and himself -at the same time. Any man who barbeques for ya nekkid can't be all bad;) Don't overthink his kindnesses or you'll GET suspicion where there should be none.

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Don't bother to ask her to explain, I can explain her motivation.

She can't understand my taste in you, Charm....It's that simple....so she resents me.

I'm still trying to understand myself my taste in you, Babs and Isis...you all are so finger lickin good looking and sweet yet so very different. I want all of you, but especially you.

Ml_Texas,

Your mistake was to kiss her azz for 16 years.....When you do that they lose respect for you......You can believe she is unhappy now.....But that is NORMAL for most of them, so don't dwell on it...Stop trying to make a woman happy.....Make yourself happy.

Catseye,

I don't mess with you cause you don't mess with me....Maybe we should cohabitate.

darlin I can take a joke can you? and yeah I know my man is being nice...we were gonna bbq this evening but there were a couple of things that changed our minds...one was the weather turned cold and second son arrived home unexpectedly...the the christening of the outdoor furniture is on hold

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keith snookums...try as ya might you could never understand or fullfill anyone as intelligent or complex as me.  :hug:

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Nor would I bother to try.

So, "complex" is a new word to define psychotic?

I'll add that to my dictionary.

And you are right. I'll never understand nor will I attempt.

If it wasn't for this forum and it's magical tech, you would be totally invisible to me.

Ya'll are starting to sound like lovers spatting:)

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shhhhh....see I told ya keffy weffy that if you carried on like that they would guess...you have let the cat outta the bag  :hug:

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She thinks she is accomplishing her goal, Charm......She desires to distract me from you with her insults.

She knows she can't have me, but doesn't want you to either.

You know the type.

heh heh  he doessss seem to be paying a lot of attention to ya ...he reminds me of how a bratty kid acts when they have a crush on someone....    LMAO

hope ya had a most wonderful anniversary darlin'....something tells me ya did!