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Is this just me ?  Or is it a man thing ?

Today I woke up feeling exhausted and achy.  Really wishing I was 2 years old so a woman would pick me up, and carry me to the sink for a bath.. Powder my butt, and dry me off with a soft cloth... I just can't seem to get out've bed on my own. As a real man, I have every right to insist on being held, swaddled, burped, and changed !
I get so sick of posing, acting as if I have it together !  It really sucks at times


oooops,  I think I made a poopy

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As rudely as you put that.... still, I understand it and sympathize w/it.

Ya see, I hate men about as strongly as you hate women.  :yes: They serve one purpose and one purpose only...  

Heaven forbid we ever meet face to face, what a screaming match that could be.  LMAO

(no offense meant either... just stating a fact)

*dayum it, getting the diaper wipes now.. Kappy needs a changin' *

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Charmin, I DON'T hate women!

I simply learned not to take them serious or invest in them.

I still have several women in my life, but none who "need" my time or my stuff, or a "meaningful relationship".

I stopped pausing for them and refuse to waste my time in orbit around one. I've changed my direction too many times trying to accomodate a woman and it never failed that it was a dead end trip.

No, I ain't anti-woman, I am just no longer distracted by them.

If someday I happen to look up and see one keeping pace with me and headed in the same direction, then we might share a toothbush for awhile, but till then, I ain't got time.

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There're females out there that are right for me, but I don't wish to be with them, They aren't attractive to me, friends, yeah, we are..but I need to keep distance because I don't want them too close. Believe it or not, I'm not here typing because I'm lonely and can't find anyone, It's because I don't want 95% of what's out there. NO INTEREST, I enjoy my own company, it tooks YEARS of suffering, and being alone to realize, alone can be REALLY nice !!  If I need an escape, I find a place on the internet that suits my mood, or walk, or play any one of my loads of instruments. If I'm not attracted to a woman, to me she might as well be a male, because seriously, what's the point ? I can't and won't get close to her, I don't like people THAT much, I'm not needy for something another person can give me.  Realistically, what can a woman give me that I don't have ?  Sex ? Sure, but I need to be very physically attracted to a woman these days for that, I'm no longer the one-night stand hunting sexually compulsive pig I was in my prime, but dang, it felt GOOD ... Heck,  Today, if she's not attractive the sex is better by myself, or on Cam !! I don't want to go to bed with a female I'm not attracted to and it's not possible to maintain a sexually active life beyond a certain point unless we lower our standards.. I have no need to, I can get Rubberina out've the closet, and my bicycle pump if I find myself in dire-straits.  I have NO INTEREST in a "relationship" beyond friendship unless both me and the person get something out've the relationship besides additional baggage. There are loads of females in my life that are friends, (prior to my 40's I couldn't even be friends with a female, females were things guys were supposed to pick up at bars, it's how I spent most of my life, I was diagnosed as a "woman hater", and for awhile I might've been).  Reason being, I was burnt young several times, I became defensive, afraid of getting close, but was it THEIR fault at that time ?  Probably, but MY OWN too, it's because I was "attracted to them physically" and wished to overlook that these females were NOT nice people, and what I thought was "love", was sexual panacea, I didn't know the difference between being attracted to a woman, and loving her.. Reality was, I wasn't capable of loving anybody. It was ALL about :how she made me feel: Relationships were mutual use.. I didn't see it. There wasn't "love".
What I need is something to believe in. Something to trust.. Probably something like "God", and accepting my mortality, but until such a point, a female is a potential source of another substance I might get addicted to given my current mindset.

I've got EVERYTHING I want materially, I've got two parents still alive that are cutting edge professionals, and thru VERY hard work, I've learned to form a semi-comfortable life for myself, and I'm content with it so WHY settle for a "downer" or another persons problems, when my own life needs A LOT of tweaking ? Fear of being alone existed years back, and that was brutal, but  I worked that out. EVERYBODY must at some point learn to enjoy their own space, and not fear it. Mates aren't babysitters, but God, I'd love a few days with a kinky nurse... OK, that aside. I'm not lonely, I'm not depressed, why do people feel they SHOULD, or NEED to be in relationships ? Without regard for the fact that relationships are REALLY tough work, and not magic ?   If people are single, have hobbies, friends around, and are semi-grounded, the relationship happens on it's own in time, otherwise to push or need it is a rocky foundation based on what ?  Selfish need ? Isn't marriage supposed to be romantic ?  If-so, what happens after the two people get bored with each other ?  Sit around feeling remorse and guilt ?  There are fabulous females out there, but I've got what I want now, my interests, and my space.. First I need to find some sanity, than I can consider adding more trouble (a girlfriend) onto my list of "To do" stuff.. Only thing missing is "animal lust each night", so I try to create that alone (sue me)..

See, the problem isn't men or females, it's people, their expectations, and not actually being "good friends" with their spouse. How else can this work ? To marry a person I'm attracted to, while overlooking who "THEY REALLY ARE" is picking a spouse out've a hat at a raffle, how can it work based on the physical ? Biggest problem with relationships IMHO is that people of the opposite sex are still PEOPLE, and to romanticize about them at the expense of who they truly are is dangerous. I've heard that "women are people" so many times, I'm starting to think it must be true.. OTHER people aren't easy to be around much of the time.  

Until a women is a friend, and I get my own xit together... There's no chance of marriage happening in my life.  It's just adding a source of stress onto something where stress need not exist.

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on cam?  :shock:

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Exactly, Steven

I wish dogs lived longer than 10-14 years.  They can be amazing companions, even shrinks of sorts !   But the pain of loss is horrible !


But as to Love, Romance, and other intense emotions.  A friend online pretty much hit the nail on the head with an interesting philosophy during a discussion that got into this, she mentioned that she's looked at love from both sides now, from give and take but still somehow,  it's loves illusions she recalls, she really doesn't know love at all.  I had to think about it, but it makes sense !



Yeah,  for almost a full day now.  Thanks to the maternal instinct of a few of you females around here I now have fungus, diaper rash, yeast, moss, toxic mold, and jock itch..  See what I mean about romance and fantasy ?  There's no such thing !

How I feel today, will likely not be how a feel in a week.  Stuff just changes like that.
It's life. <---(profound cliche 'n stuff) !!

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hmmm I thought this thread needed updating...
the car I test drove and took back is now sitting in our garage...
No we havent bought it yet
But Steve is going to take it to work tomorrow to see if he likes to drive it.

http://www.trademe.co.nz/Trade-Me-Motor ... 803585.htm

thats the vehicle but the same colour as the orange one in the picture

Yeah I know its a strange looking likkle beast but then so am I

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Morgan.....................Look at me, Morgan......This is NOT personal, I'm being honest.

I could not be more serious about this. That is an UGLY car.

It doesn't need to be orange to be ugly. It's ugly is sooooo deep it goes beyond color-it goes to the bone.....No-it goes all the way into it's DNA.

Please think hard about keeping it....and if you do keep it, keep it in the garage.

I am so lucky to live in America where we have custom pickups with loud pipes and Harleys and tattoed women in thongs who like to get slapped around

God Bless the USA!

and keith darlin I am so happy to be an individual not a sheeple...also rather relieved that some countries in the world do take global warming and the over use of fossil fuels seriously.
Aside from that...my broom loves my car and vice versa

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http://thepigeon.orcon.net.nz/uglycars.html  

Hey Vicki,

I know of a woman in the UK who bought a Nissan Micra and she loves it. She said she drives it back and forth to work everyday, and a tank of petrol lasts her a month.  LOL Wish I could get that kind of mileage!

see that is the fundamental difference tween you and me Keith...I can be laughed at and it will never bother me I am not defined by rings on the fingers, bells on the toes or the car that I drive.
The mere fact that I can drive an uncool car and enjoy doing so, makes it cool
Its like liking an uncool person or an outcast.
I am comfortable with who I am and how my life is. I dont keep up with the Joneses, but I have a nice secure mortgage free home that I love coming home to.
I dont drive a cool car but I can fit all my gig gear into it and I know that it will get me from point A to point B safely and on time
Oh and one of the most important things (certainly in my world) I may not have the worlds most handsome husband, but he adores me, and satisfies me in bed
How could I possibly wish for more?

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Ouch!....,,.what a terrible thing to say about any husband.

Hey, I was just being HONEST ! Really, I intended no harm.

Gez, I hope you never ask me if you look too fat!